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Posted by on Jul. 1, 2012 at 10:59 PM
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Okay so this is my fertile days and suppose to ovulate on the 4th! My question is is it bad to have sex every night?? B/c so far we have every night I have been fertile! Or does this make my chance less to pregnant? Thanks.
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Beth270
by on Jul. 2, 2012 at 1:13 AM
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Mama2LexiAnn
by on Jul. 2, 2012 at 1:28 AM
I *think* that sex every night might reduce his sperm count, have you been having sex every night for awhile? If you are just having sex every night you are most fertile, I don't see a problem. I read somewhere that you should keep sex prior to ovulation at a minimum, then have sex often during your fertile days to increase your chances.
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Cynthia86
by Cynthia on Jul. 2, 2012 at 1:29 AM
I don't think it matters especially if your partner has no issues with his swimmers! Good luck!
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CowgirlSoldier
by on Jul. 2, 2012 at 2:27 AM

The way I learned it was would you rather put in zero sperm and have zero chance for that day or would you rather BD each day you are highly fertile and at least have some chance. My opinion is BD often, as often as you like. There is IMO no such thing as too much BD (but others do have different opinions on the subject :-)

kelly617
by on Jul. 2, 2012 at 2:42 AM

I say go for it...of all the studies I've read there is no conclusive research that says every day will reduce the swimmers...

Beth270
by on Jul. 2, 2012 at 8:53 AM
Yes only time we have sex everyday is un my fertile days! Other than that it's every other or every 2 days!


Quoting Mama2LexiAnn:

I *think* that sex every night might reduce his sperm count, have you been having sex every night for awhile? If you are just having sex every night you are most fertile, I don't see a problem. I read somewhere that you should keep sex prior to ovulation at a minimum, then have sex often during your fertile days to increase your chances.

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Bero2007
by on Jul. 2, 2012 at 8:54 AM
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I agree with this. :) have fun ;)

Quoting CowgirlSoldier:

The way I learned it was would you rather put in zero sperm and have zero chance for that day or would you rather BD each day you are highly fertile and at least have some chance. My opinion is BD often, as often as you like. There is IMO no such thing as too much BD (but others do have different opinions on the subject :-)

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HisB0107
by Billine on Jul. 2, 2012 at 9:02 AM
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It is not bad to have sex everynight. It would only be bad if your SO had sperm issues. As long as sperm is normal and healthy...it's kind of like breastmilk. Supply and demand. The more he gives on a regular bases the more he'll have available each time. That's what I was explained by my fertility specialist and I've read it in research. 

HisB0107
by Billine on Jul. 2, 2012 at 9:03 AM
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And if you can't BD everyday...at least every other day during your fertile window is really good too. And actually a lot of women are told to BD every other day rather than everyday.

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