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Thinkin about letting my dream go

Posted by on Jul. 2, 2012 at 1:15 AM
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I'm 21 will be 22 the 27th, and me and my husband have been TTC for 2 years and nothing so I'm just thinking about just giving up.:-( oh well I guess. Oh andif anyone remembers I posted about a week or so ago about finding out about my DH's Ex was pregnant well its confirmed....my SS and SD spilled the beans.


To add to this my SD asked me the other day if I was going to have a baby and here is the convo (SD is 4 and calls me B because thats what my name starts with and is easier for her to say) ANYWHO

SD- B are you going to have a baby like my mommy?

Me-I dont know hunny I might not be able to.

SD-Its ok B I'll be your baby.


I about cried when I heard this :-( but at least I'll have a baby lol

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CowgirlSoldier
by Dee on Jul. 2, 2012 at 2:44 AM

First off hugs because right now you really need one. 

Second, I know it's hard, especially being young and TTC and it's not working. Have you tried going to a Dr. to see if there is anything you can do beyond what you have already tried? I heard of a book called "Taking Charge of your Fertility" and I think I am going to get that book. I am young like you, 24, and I really want to have a baby with my husband more than anything. I know seeing all the BFP's around you can get you down, but say some prayers and don't give up on your dream. You can acheive whatever goal your mind sets. <3 

Baby Dust and hugs your way. 

baby dust

blueeyedbabi
by Brandi on Jul. 2, 2012 at 2:49 AM

Thank you. I have been to the doctor and nothing "ab normal" :-( or they dont know whats wrong(been to 3 doctors) andthey send me to a place where my insurance dont cover:-( I'm so sad

Quoting CowgirlSoldier:

First off hugs because right now you really need one. 

Second, I know it's hard, especially being young and TTC and it's not working. Have you tried going to a Dr. to see if there is anything you can do beyond what you have already tried? I heard of a book called "Taking Charge of your Fertility" and I think I am going to get that book. I am young like you, 24, and I really want to have a baby with my husband more than anything. I know seeing all the BFP's around you can get you down, but say some prayers and don't give up on your dream. You can acheive whatever goal your mind sets. <3 

Baby Dust and hugs your way. 

baby dust


kelly617
by on Jul. 2, 2012 at 2:50 AM

That is so sweet!!!
Don't give up hope...what have you guys done so far to try and get preggers?

Maybe its just something super simple like missing your ovulation. That what my problem. My cycles aren't regular and I was going off of the "you ovulate 14 days after your period" myth....well the month I used OPK's I found out I actually ovulate later...I was only off by 4 days but its enough that as soon as we figured it out....BAM pregnant

I hate to see anyone give up on having a baby...until your uterus and/or ovaries fall out there is always a chance....don't give up

blueeyedbabi
by Brandi on Jul. 2, 2012 at 3:05 AM

We have been to doctors tried the opk's Even tried vitamins you name it we have tried it

Quoting kelly617:

That is so sweet!!!
Don't give up hope...what have you guys done so far to try and get preggers?

Maybe its just something super simple like missing your ovulation. That what my problem. My cycles aren't regular and I was going off of the "you ovulate 14 days after your period" myth....well the month I used OPK's I found out I actually ovulate later...I was only off by 4 days but its enough that as soon as we figured it out....BAM pregnant

I hate to see anyone give up on having a baby...until your uterus and/or ovaries fall out there is always a chance....don't give up


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mommylove818
by on Jul. 2, 2012 at 3:11 AM
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Dont give up girly keep trying good luck
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by Melinda on Jul. 2, 2012 at 3:13 AM
Aww that's so sweet is break down in front of her!
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Wantstobeamum22
by Malissa on Jul. 2, 2012 at 3:14 AM
Hey, I'm sorry, please don't give up hope, I always think we should give up to, it's never gonna happen, but I bet when u don't think he will happen, it he, just go with the flow and live life it will happen, btw u said u have tried everything, I was wondering have u tried getting a HSG done?? I wish u all the best good luck
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blueeyedbabi
by Brandi on Jul. 2, 2012 at 3:17 AM
No not yet but I will bring that up in my next doctors appointment the 12th
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kelly617
by on Jul. 2, 2012 at 3:21 AM

I know you said you tried everything....have you tried Temping and charting? A LOT of ladies here swear by it....I've started this month..and its super easy
I'm doing that along with OPK's to pinpoint and confirm ovulation...that way I can make sure I'm hitting my most fertile days

I have also heard REALLY good things about Super B Complex (they carry it at walmart so its easy to find) its just a vitamin but apparently its like a super pill...if you have short cycles that won't allow you to get pregnant it can lengthen them...if your cycles are too long it can shorten them...if they are irregular it regulates....its amazing...and its natural and your body needs it anyway. No downside!!!

I've heard that prepping your body for pregnancy can help too...taking prenatals and iron can create a "happy" environment for and egg to implant. Just an idea....good luck.!!!

Wantstobeamum22
by Malissa on Jul. 2, 2012 at 3:22 AM
Ok then, yeah there could be something wrong there, that's probly why ur not getting pregnant, best of luck
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