Ttc Safe Zone or not I'm An emotional wreck

[Davithm]

Ok so I'm 11dpo today on my wedding anniversary, and I'm totally bummed and extremely frustrated with ttc. I know it's only been 8 mos of ttc, but I'm just tired of it all. This is my third cycle on clomid 150mg this round, and I think all of the preg symptoms I'm having are just bc of the clomid. I was hoping to get preg this cycle just with the clomid and care from my ob, but it looks like I'm going to have to go to an RE starting next month. I told my dh that I'm not going to test again unless I'm a week or so late. I hate getting bfns every time. Dh and I are getting massages today, so maybe that'll help me relax and get in a better mood. You ladies are so supportive and I'm so glad that I have you to talk to; no one really understands ttc and the emotional roller coaster like you ladies do.

[Aldinea13]

Just breathe sweetie! it WILL be ok! Go enjoy that massage and let all of your worries go! I have a good feeling about you!! Just try to relax and remember that the long journey that this is WILL be so very worth it in the end!!!

[HisB0107]

it doesn't matter if this is your 1st or 50th month ttc, it's all disheartening. I had a lot of issues with Clomid and opted for Femara. I onyl got hot flashes with it for a side effect and have heard about the same for everyone else who has taken it. It's been successful for me twice now. It does the same thing as Clomid, with less side effects and a smaller chance of multiples. Maybe it's time to ask your doc for a new drug to help out. ((hugs)) hang in there hun.

[Davithm]

Thank u so much. The RE I'll be seeing usually starts with Femara; one of my moms friends is a nurse there and she told me that they've had a lot of success with it. Also my ob has done everything in his power, all the right tests for me and dh, and we're both normal. Dh had a lower sperm count than normal but the vitamin supplement he's been taken should be taking care of that. My FSg test was normal and my progesterone levels are slowly rising with the clomid. So, I've got to relax and keep the faith. God has a plan and a have to trust that even though I want to control things so badly myself.

[amy31308]

Hope you enjoy your massage!!