Have you been TTC longer than you thought you would be?
I'm just curious how others came into the TTC process. I have been TTC #3 for 17 months and it has taken me by surprise. The funny thing is this is the first time I came into the process with confidence ... I had a MC with my first pregnancy and then it took almost 2 yrs to get pregnant again .... I thought it was never going to happen and then with my 2nd son I was prepared to have another long road, but to my surprise got pregnant fairly quickly. (4 months).
I feel like I spent all this time talking it over with my husband, making sure we were in a place to have a third child, what car would we buy, what would we do for a nursery ...... just assuming that we would get pregnant again. I feel a bit stupid now, like I should have known better and maybe I was too confident. I also feel incredibly arrogant in the fact that I said "let's try for a girl", when really that shouldn't of even mattered at all.
In the end, I am so thankful to have my 2 boys and if I am lucky enough to get pregnant again I will never take it for granted. Not that I ever did .... but sometimes you need a reminder.