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TTC after chemical pregnancy

Posted by on Aug. 5, 2012 at 7:09 AM
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We did an IUI cycle last month and got a BFP just to find out a week later that it was a "chemical pregnancy". We ofcourse wanted to try again immediately however my cycle this month (if I can eben call it a cycle) is completely insane... I started spotting brown 3 days before my cycle was supposed to start and it has never really graduated to a full flow, Its been a week and its just this spotting. Has anyone experienced anything similar? I have an appointment with my doctor this week, I'm just completely frustrated and sad.....

Posted by on Aug. 5, 2012 at 7:09 AM
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lbrummett
by Lori on Aug. 5, 2012 at 7:13 AM
I am frustrated also. I was on my first cycle of clomid and progestorine and I usually have a 26 day cycle but am now on cd41. I had some light bleeding but not a full flow for a little bit of 2 days last week.
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lbrummett
by Lori on Aug. 5, 2012 at 7:14 AM
Sorry for your loss:(
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Brie10
by on Aug. 5, 2012 at 8:32 AM
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So sorry for your loss...we went thru that in early june. Its devistating.
I am now 8.5 weeks pregnant. I didnt use meds...just continued the prenatal vitamins. That seems to help but idk y. We bd every day n I never went to the bathroom after..keep it in there! A chemical will let u know that it IS possible to get pregnant, so keep ur head up...it will happen!
Dont stress out or be obsessed with trying to make a baby. Tha alslo makes it harder. Chart ur temps and cm and ul see that when u relax, it happens so much easier...
Good luck n sticky baby dust to all!!!!
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Bero2007
by Becca on Aug. 5, 2012 at 8:35 AM
Af came 3 days early here and has been nothing but spotting here too. So frustrating. Took an hit the day af should have come just in case and of course it was negative
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amy31308
by Ashlee on Aug. 5, 2012 at 9:20 AM
All great advice but I think since she's doing IUI she's already doing/done that stuff and I'm sure there's no relaxing while waiting for that procedure :) good advice for someone not at this stage though!!

Quoting Brie10:

So sorry for your loss...we went thru that in early june. Its devistating.

I am now 8.5 weeks pregnant. I didnt use meds...just continued the prenatal vitamins. That seems to help but idk y. We bd every day n I never went to the bathroom after..keep it in there! A chemical will let u know that it IS possible to get pregnant, so keep ur head up...it will happen!

Dont stress out or be obsessed with trying to make a baby. Tha alslo makes it harder. Chart ur temps and cm and ul see that when u relax, it happens so much easier...

Good luck n sticky baby dust to all!!!!
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amy31308
by Ashlee on Aug. 5, 2012 at 9:21 AM
I have no experience. GL
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aussiechic
by on Aug. 5, 2012 at 9:26 AM

 I'm very sorry. :(   I had a chemical in Jan.  Then go got PG again that same month but foudn out at my 8 week appointment it had died at 5w. :/   I hope you get some answers from your doctor.

Brie10
by on Aug. 5, 2012 at 9:29 AM
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Jus tryin to keep her spirits up...


Quoting amy31308:

All great advice but I think since she's doing IUI she's already doing/done that stuff and I'm sure there's no relaxing while waiting for that procedure :) good advice for someone not at this stage though!!



Quoting Brie10:

So sorry for your loss...we went thru that in early june. Its devistating.


I am now 8.5 weeks pregnant. I didnt use meds...just continued the prenatal vitamins. That seems to help but idk y. We bd every day n I never went to the bathroom after..keep it in there! A chemical will let u know that it IS possible to get pregnant, so keep ur head up...it will happen!


Dont stress out or be obsessed with trying to make a baby. Tha alslo makes it harder. Chart ur temps and cm and ul see that when u relax, it happens so much easier...


Good luck n sticky baby dust to all!!!!

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orangeshirt
by on Aug. 5, 2012 at 9:50 AM
Have you had your levels checked to see if they are back down to zero?
Mika3
by on Aug. 8, 2012 at 3:16 AM

@orangeshirt- I got my levels checked a week and a half after we found out about the chemical pregnancy, they said that my levels were back down to 0.... I have no clue what's going on with my cycle.

Since I havent really had a full flow I guess i'm on cycle day 41? Who knows, so frustrated.

But, I really do appreciate all the well wishes, and for you guys taking the time to respond. I feel better knowing I have an outlet and somewhere to go where people know what I'm going through.  xoxoxoxoxo

 

 

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