so flipping upset, (not ttc matter) I need help idk what to do LONG sorry :((
ok i have to start from beginning. Dh has always had a crush on this bitch from highschool. Well up until last summer he hadn't seen her, or talk to her then she needed her motorcycle worked on. So he told her okay no big deal well then it became her being here every day all day long (she lives about 1 1/2hrs away) and all day/night texting phone calls. Before she came around we had access to each others phones, emails etc. then she came around and he started sleeping with it in his pocket. Well I found out that they were talking in ways a man married shouldn't talk to another woman. She was texting him photos of her daughter, and she came here one day and took photos with her daughter and our son Nikolas sending him the photos saying " aren't they so cute together, and then one of the three of them (her, her daugher, and nikolas) saying " aren't we a cute family"
So I got fed up with all the bs because everyone was telling me I was over reacting and covering for him etc..So I took the kids and moved out we left and went to NY, well he called and talked to me throughout the time I was down there and he told me he was no longer talking to her. (Dec 4th) well come Dec 23rd I was ready to come home, and believed what he was saying soo I came home, and low and behold I found his phone bill and it said the last time he talked to her wasn't Dec 4th, it was Dec 22nd. I confronted him on it, and he told me he wasn't talking to her. He gave me his cell phone, and his computer, told me to change his facebook password and shut it off , as well as both of his emails, so I did. I felt better kinda
His parents own a store on the same property that we live on and they have a phone ,and computer there he has access to but he swore since then he hadn't been on it.
Well this am curious (because I hadn't been on his accounts in months) so I logged into my old account, I looked on his moms facebook page and there was his name, account still active? So I ?'d it thinking maybe last time I logged out I forgot to deactivate it.
So I go try to log into his facebook and I can't get it, so I go to his email and try both of them NOPE can't get in passwords wont work, so I go and do the password wont work link and it says password his reset JUNE 22,2012
the password hint " toy sheppard name" ummm ?????? we don't have a flipping toy sheppard
So ladies I am flipping out, dh is up yet and I have all I can do not to go and start beating the ever living crap out of him
I am feeling the same exact way he made me feel last summer
I'm not skinny enough, I nag to much asking him what he plans are for the day etc, not really nagging just a simple ? and he calls it nagging
Idk what to do, I am at lost for words, sitting here crying, thinking wtf am I going to do now.When I was in NY I found a good man, who wanted to be with me, and I left him to come back home for this?