well, tuesday is so far away..

[armywife8112011]

HI Ladies!

I am 19 and, my husband is 21 and in the Army. We have been trying to concieve for about 1.5 years, maybe a little over! when we first started trying we didnt know really what to do or really about ovulating or BBT or anything, now of course i know quite a bit more! I have gone to the doc when my DH was deployed to see if it was me or him, just to do some testing. well it turns out its me! i do not ovulate becuase something is wrong with my fallopian tubes. THAT being said, I still had my period. it was about 40 days between the last day and the first day though and ALWAYS for 5 days. now, may 26th was the last day of my last period. now its august 24th and still no period and no baby.... :/ Tuesady my DH made me an appointment to try to figure out what the heck to do and whats wrong. (wish me luck)

i just didnt know if anyone had the same problems or anything. i think the hardest thing is that everyone around me is preggers and asking me why im not (cuz im the only married one lol) pregnant yet. i just dont know what to say or how to deal with it. sometimes there is just such a great emotional toll that i feel and i will just burst into tears. i went to church one morning with my bestfriend and his family and the pastor was talking about a mother who had had an abortion, and a mother who lost her child due to SIDS and then a baby was crying literally right behind me. i just burst into tears and walked out of the room. i just dont know how to handle this great emotional toll that i am feeling now. its such a burden. I was just hoping for some adive i guess.

 

Thanks Ladies for ANY help <3

 

EDIT

Went to the doctor. Got 2 urine samples taken as well as blood and they are testing my Dh's little swimmers! I am being referred to an infertility specalist and everything is moving in the right direction EXCEPT i got a bladder infection as of like 2 days ago. Either I gave it to my hubby or he gave it me cuz we both have one! PRAY that GOES AWAY!!!! thanks ladiesss!

[NoraDun]

Maybe your tubes are blocked? If that is the case their is generally an easy fix and you may concieve quickly. I dont know the name of the procedure but I am sure the Drs will help you out with that. Good Luck and I hope you all get your baby really soon!

[Jesi102]

It's called an HSG test :) lots of people have luck after having it done

Quoting NoraDun:

Maybe your tubes are blocked? If that is the case their is generally an easy fix and you may concieve quickly. I dont know the name of the procedure but I am sure the Drs will help you out with that. Good Luck and I hope you all get your baby really soon!