9/2/12
I am now on day 42 of a 25 day cycle. I have taken a test everyday since 8/23/12. All of them are negative. I am so nausous,tired,bloated,crampy and my back aches. I feel pregnant...
I called my doctor and they said to wait to come in until I am three full weeks late. That will be on 9/8/12. If I am not pregnant this time I will be totally devestated. The other reasons could be perimenopause or something really really wrong with me. I am scared to death and my husband doesn't want to talk about it because he thinks he will jinx us.
I am going crazy!
I have come back to this group again. I have been a member before and left when my TTC journey has become to painful to deal with. I have been TTC #2 for 8 years now. It took 4 years to get pregnant with our daughter. Our infertility is unexplained.
In the past 8 years I have had three miscarriages that all ended before 6 weeks. Those were not confirmed by pregnancy tests. I did not get a positive test with my daughter until almost 7 weeks.
My last miscarriage was on October 18, 2011. I had one six months prior to that in March 2011 and my first one was in July 2008.
I am currently on day 33 of a 25 day cycle. I have never made it to day 36 in any pregnancy (other than with my daughter)
If I am pregnant today makes 5 weeks. I am worried that it might be the early stages of menopause...but I feel pregnant. Nausea, headaches, back pain, fatigue...
I am sorry to have come and gone from here so many times...I just need support from women in the same situation.
Thats CRAZY ....are you sure you were 16dpo? I mean did you track your temps and know for sure or did you just use opk and what you feel?? maybe you implanted later......
Quoting Abee2202:
I was dpo16 before I saw the faintest of line.
Quoting mama2gg:
I got a bfp one them at 9dpo
Quoting Abee2202:
I don't think the dollar tree tests work for checking early. I was dpo22 before the line was visible without squinting
Quoting emsmom01:
Yes all within normal levels...my job was extremely stressful at the time I miscarried the last two. I have taken 4 dollar tree tests, all negative.
I'm so very sorry love I've had 11 of my own some which made it long enough to give birth to...Its a long hard road all we can do is keep trying I'm 7w4d today and all I can do is pray to God he lets me keep this one here on earth!
If you need to talk to anyone or just vent im here!
Quoting emsmom01:
Thanks...all my levels were normal sadly that is not the cause...they can't figure out the cause in my case :(
Quoting mama2gg:
Just a heads up you can have early losses because of low progestrone and you won't know it unless you got a blood test to check it and its easy to fix it I would lose all my babies if I didn't start shots at 4ish weeks
Quoting emsmom01:
I want to spend money on a "real" test until I was at least 6 weeks...I am just so afraid that it is early menopause. I will be 37 in a month.
So if I'm calculating correctly my first bfp was dpo16. I know I ovulated on July 25th because I got cramps just as I always do (actually had cramps for two weeks straight, which was a bit of a tip off).
I didn't temp or anything. This was our first try and I just know my body well.
Quoting mama2gg:Thats CRAZY ....are you sure you were 16dpo? I mean did you track your temps and know for sure or did you just use opk and what you feel?? maybe you implanted later......
Quoting Abee2202:
I was dpo16 before I saw the faintest of line.
Quoting mama2gg:
I got a bfp one them at 9dpo
Quoting Abee2202:
I don't think the dollar tree tests work for checking early. I was dpo22 before the line was visible without squinting
Quoting emsmom01:
Yes all within normal levels...my job was extremely stressful at the time I miscarried the last two. I have taken 4 dollar tree tests, all negative.
my husband held a baby yesterday
- emsmom01
on Aug. 25, 2012 at 11:21 AM