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When TTC do you avoid...

Posted by on Aug. 25, 2012 at 10:37 PM
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sex during certain cycles to avoid certain birth months??

I am so extremely hopeful for this cycle. I mean REALLY REALLY hopeful. If we concieve this cycle I will be due the end of may. So our family birthdays will go as follows.....EDD May, Hubby and Laylah's B-day June, Xavier's July (His and Laylah's birthdays are only 8 days apart), My birthday August, and Malachi's Sept. So we would have May, June, July, August, and Sept LOL. BUT if we concieve in Oct (When I seem to be most fertile) Then I would be due right around the time I had Laylah and Xavier LOL. So it would be a 4th birthday between mid June and beginning of July. So I am trying to decide...do I say I want a baby bad enough...who cares. (Which really is the case) Or do I say well for the sake of the children I already have...and HUbby's poor paycheck LOL maybe I should not TTC Oct. OH I hope I dont even have to be concerned with it because we concieve this cycle. LOL But what would you do?

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lbrummett
by Lori on Aug. 25, 2012 at 10:39 PM
I probably wouldn't skip
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NoraDun
by Ruby Member on Aug. 25, 2012 at 10:41 PM

Correction: Yea I would hate to. With Xavier I was due July11 and had him July 3. With Laylah I was due July 7th and had her June 25th. So if I ovulated on cd 24 like I did my last two O cycles that would put me due July 10th LOL. 

Guess I really have Oct on the brain LOL

Quoting lbrummett:

I probably wouldn't skip


-Mommy-2-Three-
by Kary on Aug. 25, 2012 at 10:51 PM
I pay attention to it but don't really avoid any month........I do secretly hope to conceive in Dec though lol, to be due in Sept 2013 :) here is why....

Ds1-march (03) 2007
Ds2-december (12) 2009
DD-june (06) 2011
Baby 4-september (09) 2013

So my kids birthday months would be 3, 6, 9 & 12 (by 3s) and birth years would be 2007, 2009, 2011 & 2013 (every other) hahahaha!!!

Only month I secretly don't want another baby born in is Dec :/ with DH & Ds2 & christmas its already maddness LOL.
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by Kary on Aug. 25, 2012 at 10:53 PM
U were due with laylah in oct & had her in june :( woooooooow

Quoting NoraDun:

Yea I would hate to. With Xavier I was due Oct 11 and had him Oct 3. With Laylah I was due Oct 7th and had her June 25th. So if I ovulated on cd 24 like I did my last two O cycles that would put me due Oct 10th LOL. 

Quoting lbrummett:

I probably wouldn't skip


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by Kary on Aug. 25, 2012 at 10:55 PM
I also believe in zodiac to an extent lol......my kids are pisces, capricorn & gemini so a fire sign like aries, leo or sagittarius would be nice to balance the siblings ;) but again we don't avoid, just sorta hope....or think it'd be neat lol.
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by Kary on Aug. 25, 2012 at 10:57 PM
Btw I LOVE odd #s :) it drove me nuts having Ds2 on 24th & DD on 8th but loved having Ds2 on 17th hahaha......I am a freak I know lol!

Quoting -Mommy-2-Three-:

I pay attention to it but don't really avoid any month........I do secretly hope to conceive in Dec though lol, to be due in Sept 2013 :) here is why....



Ds1-march (03) 2007

Ds2-december (12) 2009

DD-june (06) 2011

Baby 4-september (09) 2013



So my kids birthday months would be 3, 6, 9 & 12 (by 3s) and birth years would be 2007, 2009, 2011 & 2013 (every other) hahahaha!!!



Only month I secretly don't want another baby born in is Dec :/ with DH & Ds2 & christmas its already maddness LOL.
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marissabrookee
by Gold Member on Aug. 25, 2012 at 11:03 PM
Yes! I'm hopeful for this month because it would be May, and my daughter is June, and I'm April and my boyfriend is September. So our next baby after this if we succeed this month, we will try for August! haha
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cemcnair
by on Aug. 25, 2012 at 11:06 PM
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I did not skip. We are due in March which is already a crazy busy month for us so I wouldn't have minded skipping it, but I wasn't ready to give up ttc!
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by Kary on Aug. 25, 2012 at 11:57 PM
I have a St. Patty's baby :) when r u due? I was due april 5th but he came march 17th :)

Quoting cemcnair:

I did not skip. We are due in March which is already a crazy busy month for us so I wouldn't have minded skipping it, but I wasn't ready to give up ttc!
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cemcnair
by on Aug. 25, 2012 at 11:59 PM
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3/13/13!
I'm kind of hoping for a 3/20/13 baby. That is my late grandma's birthday just in 1913!


Quoting -Mommy-2-Three-:

I have a St. Patty's baby :) when r u due? I was due april 5th but he came march 17th :)



Quoting cemcnair:

I did not skip. We are due in March which is already a crazy busy month for us so I wouldn't have minded skipping it, but I wasn't ready to give up ttc!
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