So a few days ago dh and I talked about BDing more often since my cycles have been off that way we would have a better chance of catching the egg! He agreed and I was happy BUT!!! Last night, I mentioned that we should BD because it has been a while (and I'm talking like over a week) and he said "well I wanted to but you just made it awkward. I want it to happen naturally, not because we need to have a baby." What the hell does that mean!?! WE both decided to try and have a baby so oh course when we have sex that's going to be in the back of my mind! I am so mad!! This has been one of the biggest problems so far in our marriage because I want it more then him and we sometimes go weeks with NOTHING! He agrees that it's a problem and says he'll work on it but when it really counts he still lets me down! :( I'm just so mad and frustrated.
on Oct. 5, 2012 at 1:11 PM