im out and im done..

[Trishadawn83]

Af showed up today :( I cannot do this anymore..I that thought this was month...nope...then I go on fb and bam....someone just announces they are pregnant with their 5th child....I only want and pray ans wish every month for my first...good luck all!!!

[mama2gg]

I understand that pain we have been ttc a live child for 4 years I've "been done" many times

[Trishadawn83]

Its been 15 months for me...i dont know if id ever be able to do 4 years... 

[wifemother220]

good luck hun, i know that this process is so hard. I've been trying for a year and 6 months today for my third. I don't how how exactly you feel but you have lots of support here. I don't really "try" for a baby every month anymore because of the stress it causes. I stress easily and get overwhelmed and that doesn't help. You have to do what you have to do. Good luck hun, baby dust. 

[haileysmom15]

 I'm sorry AF showed but I dont think you should give up..

[eesmommy]

Hugs. So maybe you quit ttc for awhile and just enjoy your hunnybunny. Tell him to bring you flowers and chocolates, its just one of those days, rent a movie, order in and snuggle under the blanket, maybe your body is just too stressed to make a baby:).

[NatyRod]

((HUGS)) It WILL happen, and who says this upcoming cycle won't be it! GL my friend.

[DayDreamer1201]

Don't give up!!!

Maybe if you stop charting, stop using OPK's stop actually "trying" and have fun with it, you will get your little bean!

[Trishadawn83]

He's not a romantic type...I think if we just go on with our lives things may happen !

[Wantn1more]

That's usually when it happens... Best of luck hun!

Quoting Trishadawn83:

He's not a romantic type...I think if we just go on with our lives things may happen !

[shilohkitten]

I hear you girl.  I am TTC #2 and it sucks every bit as much as it did when I was TTC #1.  

I have just had 4 friends announce they are pregnant in the last few weeks...it is difficult but don't worry, it will happen for us when it's meant to.

Have you been TTC long and have you seen an RE if so?  We were referred to a urologist since it seems we have male factor issues and DH was done for awhile so we decided on a 3-month break.  Our last RE appt was in August and I am going nuts, since our urology appt isn't until Nov 2.  Only 2 or so weeks to go...not that it means there will be good news but at least we might find out more information.  

GL to you and I hope you get your BFP soon!  If you want to talk I am here, I am struggling with it too.  One of my best friends was just told by her RE that she has very little chance of conceiving naturally due to endometriosis...she is heartbroken and her H refuses to get any male factor testing done.  So it seems that it's a rough road all around right now but we will all get through it!