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Do you wish you could ever just go back...

Posted by on Dec. 12, 2012 at 9:10 PM
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Sitting here thinking about how long we have been TTC another baby and I just wish I could go back a year or two. Before I was stressing it too much, when I was optomistic it would happen soon. Just anytime before now. Because now I just feel like it could be years and years from now and I wonder how I am gonna emotionally handle that! Its just overwhelming and depressing :(. Do you ever wish you could just go back in time?

Merry Christmas and Happy New Years from my Family to Yours!

by on Dec. 12, 2012 at 9:10 PM
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storkneedsgps
by on Dec. 12, 2012 at 10:27 PM
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Yes, I wish I could tell myself to try as soon as I got married instead of waiting two years
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mallory_nichole
by on Dec. 12, 2012 at 10:29 PM

are you on any type of meds  to help you conceive or just natural?

NoraDun
by Ruby Member on Dec. 12, 2012 at 10:33 PM

I was on Clomid for two cycle. I ovulated but we didn't concieve. My OB wouldn't continue allowing me to take the meds unless I did the Clomid checks which cost $118 every month out of pocket. Hubby and I decided we weren't comfortable paying that once a month for a Dr to push on my stomach. So we are now TTC naturally. Probably should add we have been TTC for about 2 1/2 yrs. We were using vitamins and supplements prior to trying Metformin and Clomid. Now we are still on Metformin, but nothing else!

Quoting mallory_nichole:

are you on any type of meds  to help you conceive or just natural?


mallory_nichole
by on Dec. 12, 2012 at 10:41 PM

when you say supplements...have you tried anything like fertilaid or anything like that out there? i did use fertibella twice and both times preggo  the first bottle but i know everyone wont have same effects. i hope something happens for u soon.

Quoting NoraDun:

I was on Clomid for two cycle. I ovulated but we didn't concieve. My OB wouldn't continue allowing me to take the meds unless I did the Clomid checks which cost $118 every month out of pocket. Hubby and I decided we weren't comfortable paying that once a month for a Dr to push on my stomach. So we are now TTC naturally. Probably should add we have been TTC for about 2 1/2 yrs. We were using vitamins and supplements prior to trying Metformin and Clomid. Now we are still on Metformin, but nothing else!

Quoting mallory_nichole:

are you on any type of meds  to help you conceive or just natural?



NoraDun
by Ruby Member on Dec. 12, 2012 at 10:57 PM

What is you fertility issue? Do you O? That is my issue...I just dont O? So I am definately curious if you have the same issue if the fertibella helped. I actually have fertilityblend here. But I only took it for a short time before stopping to try soy. Maybe I will try it back out again!!! Thanks :)

Quoting mallory_nichole:

when you say supplements...have you tried anything like fertilaid or anything like that out there? i did use fertibella twice and both times preggo  the first bottle but i know everyone wont have same effects. i hope something happens for u soon.

Quoting NoraDun:

I was on Clomid for two cycle. I ovulated but we didn't concieve. My OB wouldn't continue allowing me to take the meds unless I did the Clomid checks which cost $118 every month out of pocket. Hubby and I decided we weren't comfortable paying that once a month for a Dr to push on my stomach. So we are now TTC naturally. Probably should add we have been TTC for about 2 1/2 yrs. We were using vitamins and supplements prior to trying Metformin and Clomid. Now we are still on Metformin, but nothing else!

Quoting mallory_nichole:

are you on any type of meds  to help you conceive or just natural?




mallory_nichole
by on Dec. 12, 2012 at 11:03 PM

i saw a fertility specialist and i had low progesterone, it was a 5 and he said that means i barely ovulated. he started me on clomid  100 mg and went up to 150mg the 3rd month and i  also took fertibella and found out i was pg a week ago.

Quoting NoraDun:

What is you fertility issue? Do you O? That is my issue...I just dont O? So I am definately curious if you have the same issue if the fertibella helped. I actually have fertilityblend here. But I only took it for a short time before stopping to try soy. Maybe I will try it back out again!!! Thanks :)

Quoting mallory_nichole:

when you say supplements...have you tried anything like fertilaid or anything like that out there? i did use fertibella twice and both times preggo  the first bottle but i know everyone wont have same effects. i hope something happens for u soon.

Quoting NoraDun:

I was on Clomid for two cycle. I ovulated but we didn't concieve. My OB wouldn't continue allowing me to take the meds unless I did the Clomid checks which cost $118 every month out of pocket. Hubby and I decided we weren't comfortable paying that once a month for a Dr to push on my stomach. So we are now TTC naturally. Probably should add we have been TTC for about 2 1/2 yrs. We were using vitamins and supplements prior to trying Metformin and Clomid. Now we are still on Metformin, but nothing else!

Quoting mallory_nichole:

are you on any type of meds  to help you conceive or just natural?


 



mama2gg
by on Dec. 13, 2012 at 4:43 AM
Yes even now I have many what ifs

What if I would have had surgery sooner would this be my husbands third not first..

What if I would have never touched clomid and fertility meds knowing what i know now

What if I had dh tested sooner

So many what ifs in this four year journey
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grumpyboston
by on Dec. 13, 2012 at 5:41 AM
Yup I do wish a lot of things number one thing would be why didnt I bitch n fight more about the surgery or lack of .I feel maybe if I did something different I would have a baby. Maybe I messed it up and why I wasnt smarter .if maybe I wasnt so stupid I would
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hypnautica
by Jennifer on Dec. 13, 2012 at 12:14 PM

I have thought about going back and getting married sooner and starting to try to get pregnant earlier. I was 25 when we got married in May and we started trying in July and here it is 6yrs later and we are still trying. To bad we do not know what is ahead of us. I would have pushed marriage a lot sooner lol

aihsek
by on Dec. 28, 2012 at 9:22 AM
Wish I had a clue that I would be at this point today.... id go back to my 20' s and start trying the only thing is it wouldn't be with dh so I guess im exactly where I should be :-(
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