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Trying SO hard (debbie downer warning)...

Posted by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 1:18 PM
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To just not be sour about close to 11 bfn's in the past month or so. And now after doing some research and some ladies having negative blood tests and having a baby...I just don't know what to trust anymore. I have tried virtually every brand of hpt, line tests and digis...I guess it is time to accept the fact that I am just not pregnant. But then why is AF 4 weeks and 5 days late?? I don't like seeing her ugly face, but at least when I do I know what is going on. So many christmas bfp's out there...*sigh* I just wanted to be one of them. This isn't fair though, I haven't been trying near as long as storkneedsgps or a lot of these ladies here. It just feels like I have been trying off and on since I was 20...now I'm 24. I feel like the proverbial clock is ticking away...Ok enough of being a debbie downer. Merry Christmas!

by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 1:18 PM
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MrsLondon
by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 1:24 PM

Go get a blood test done.

pistachio479
by on Dec. 21, 2012 at 11:51 AM

I am going to after christmas. :)

Quoting MrsLondon:

Go get a blood test done.


Hannahsmommy816
by on Dec. 21, 2012 at 12:09 PM

 once i skipped a month due to stress. are you stressed a lot? i am normally very regular to the day and was like why am i late? this was in high school and i wasnt sexually active at all though

pistachio479
by on Dec. 21, 2012 at 12:11 PM

no, no more than usual...

Quoting Hannahsmommy816:

 once i skipped a month due to stress. are you stressed a lot? i am normally very regular to the day and was like why am i late? this was in high school and i wasnt sexually active at all though


Hannahsmommy816
by on Dec. 21, 2012 at 12:21 PM

 huh i dont know then....i would ask your OB after you get a blood test done if maybe they can do an u/s?

Quoting pistachio479:

no, no more than usual...

Quoting Hannahsmommy816:

 once i skipped a month due to stress. are you stressed a lot? i am normally very regular to the day and was like why am i late? this was in high school and i wasnt sexually active at all though


 

pistachio479
by on Dec. 21, 2012 at 12:23 PM

I was thinking about that...thinking how much will THAT cost me?? LOL

Quoting Hannahsmommy816:

 huh i dont know then....i would ask your OB after you get a blood test done if maybe they can do an u/s?

Quoting pistachio479:

no, no more than usual...

Quoting Hannahsmommy816:

 once i skipped a month due to stress. are you stressed a lot? i am normally very regular to the day and was like why am i late? this was in high school and i wasnt sexually active at all though


 


tiffluv81
by Tiffanie on Dec. 21, 2012 at 12:25 PM

Im so sorry you are feeling so down and terrible. I wish i can do or say something to brighten your day.

ON: i read your topic and i asked the ladies at work who wa debbie downer so i want click the post and get mad. Everyone was like don't be a debbie downer.(me still looking stupid)but i get it know. :)

Hannahsmommy816
by on Dec. 21, 2012 at 12:30 PM

 oh goodness i have no idea how much they cost, we have medicaid (i have to renew it soon though)

Quoting pistachio479:

I was thinking about that...thinking how much will THAT cost me?? LOL

Quoting Hannahsmommy816:

 huh i dont know then....i would ask your OB after you get a blood test done if maybe they can do an u/s?

Quoting pistachio479:

no, no more than usual...

Quoting Hannahsmommy816:

 once i skipped a month due to stress. are you stressed a lot? i am normally very regular to the day and was like why am i late? this was in high school and i wasnt sexually active at all though


 


 

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