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TTC - Trying to Conceive TTC - Trying to Conceive

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Posted by on Jan. 8, 2013 at 6:20 PM
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I cant stand when women say

"Im pregnant but I dont want to be pregnant."

Well then you shouldve taken every precautions!

Be lucky you can even become pregnant!!!!
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mama2gg
by on Jan. 8, 2013 at 6:22 PM
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I agree shut up I'm prego I know the pains but fuck it took 4 years to get here I don't care if I end up in the hospital for pains I'm so very happy
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StrawberryCool
by on Jan. 8, 2013 at 6:31 PM
Right!

I have an appointment next week with reproductive.

But seriously.

Just be glad you can be preggo


Quoting mama2gg:

I agree shut up I'm prego I know the pains but fuck it took 4 years to get here I don't care if I end up in the hospital for pains I'm so very happy

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-Mommy-2-Three-
by Kary on Jan. 8, 2013 at 6:31 PM
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ME TOO!!! When we've tried SO HARD to conceive all of our kids its really a slap in the face when I hear people complain about being pregnant :( Not to mention the hard, complicated & painful pregnancies I've had thanks to things like low progesterone & symphasis pubis dysfunction.................but I would take all that pain gladly & would even accept MORE to be able to conceive without this emotional drain I've had to undergo time & time again!

-Mommy-2-Three-
by Kary on Jan. 8, 2013 at 6:32 PM
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Quoting mama2gg:

I agree shut up I'm prego I know the pains but fuck it took 4 years to get here I don't care if I end up in the hospital for pains I'm so very happy

Abso-freakin-lutely!!!

RussiansWoman
by Bronze Member on Jan. 8, 2013 at 6:40 PM
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 I have to take drugs to get pregnant, then I have to have a surgical procedure to stay pregnant --cervical cerclage--another procedure to remove the stitches to deliver and I have to do bedrest at varying degrees of modified to total in between....and I will never bitch about it for a single moment because I am always so damned utterly happy to be having a baby that its all worth it....every moment, ache and pain!

 

I get annoyed with people who say stuff like "Oh my god, If he looks at me I get pregnant!"  I was highly offended on New Years by my friend who was talking about her IUD.  I mentioned that I knew alot of women in here that had troubles trying to conceive after getting them out.  and she said "oh no....the doctor told me it would take 3 months after I stopped birthcontrol pills before id be able to get pregnant, and I got pregnant with zeke in less than a week! Im just super fertile!"  (I was thinking 'bitch') but instead I said "Well, it must be nice to have that problem, I wouldnt know."

StrawberryCool
by on Jan. 8, 2013 at 6:45 PM
I wouldve been like

"Maybe you should stay on the birth control."

Its been almost two years since ive had my iud out.

And nothing.

Amd trust me I should be pregnant by now. Or at least have a baby or on a second pregnancy.

Like my cousin is pregnant, and shes only about 20ish weeks along. Said she was already sick of being pregnant.


Quoting RussiansWoman:

 I have to take drugs to get pregnant, then I have to have a surgical procedure to stay pregnant --cervical cerclage--another procedure to remove the stitches to deliver and I have to do bedrest at varying degrees of modified to total in between....and I will never bitch about it for a single moment because I am always so damned utterly happy to be having a baby that its all worth it....every moment, ache and pain!


 


I get annoyed with people who say stuff like "Oh my god, If he looks at me I get pregnant!"  I was highly offended on New Years by my friend who was talking about her IUD.  I mentioned that I knew alot of women in here that had troubles trying to conceive after getting them out.  and she said "oh no....the doctor told me it would take 3 months after I stopped birthcontrol pills before id be able to get pregnant, and I got pregnant with zeke in less than a week! Im just super fertile!"  (I was thinking 'bitch') but instead I said "Well, it must be nice to have that problem, I wouldnt know."


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wantthatbaby46
by Silver Member on Jan. 8, 2013 at 6:51 PM

Some girl told me when I got my IUD out, "oh, you'll probably get pregnant right away! that's what always happens" um...bitch! it's been 6 months! stfu! It's like she jinxed me!

Quoting RussiansWoman:

 I have to take drugs to get pregnant, then I have to have a surgical procedure to stay pregnant --cervical cerclage--another procedure to remove the stitches to deliver and I have to do bedrest at varying degrees of modified to total in between....and I will never bitch about it for a single moment because I am always so damned utterly happy to be having a baby that its all worth it....every moment, ache and pain!

 

I get annoyed with people who say stuff like "Oh my god, If he looks at me I get pregnant!"  I was highly offended on New Years by my friend who was talking about her IUD.  I mentioned that I knew alot of women in here that had troubles trying to conceive after getting them out.  and she said "oh no....the doctor told me it would take 3 months after I stopped birthcontrol pills before id be able to get pregnant, and I got pregnant with zeke in less than a week! Im just super fertile!"  (I was thinking 'bitch') but instead I said "Well, it must be nice to have that problem, I wouldnt know."


~Alisonsimple smile

SweetandSassy12
by on Jan. 8, 2013 at 6:53 PM
Agreeed
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by Kary on Jan. 8, 2013 at 6:54 PM

 I am in the same position & couldn't agree more, I have struggled getting pregnant, staying pregnant & being pregnant..............the one thing in life I love most (my children) is the hardest thing I have ever done but I'd do it 10x if God would allow it.................some people just arnt so lucky :(

Quoting RussiansWoman:

 I have to take drugs to get pregnant, then I have to have a surgical procedure to stay pregnant --cervical cerclage--another procedure to remove the stitches to deliver and I have to do bedrest at varying degrees of modified to total in between....and I will never bitch about it for a single moment because I am always so damned utterly happy to be having a baby that its all worth it....every moment, ache and pain!

 

I get annoyed with people who say stuff like "Oh my god, If he looks at me I get pregnant!"  I was highly offended on New Years by my friend who was talking about her IUD.  I mentioned that I knew alot of women in here that had troubles trying to conceive after getting them out.  and she said "oh no....the doctor told me it would take 3 months after I stopped birthcontrol pills before id be able to get pregnant, and I got pregnant with zeke in less than a week! Im just super fertile!"  (I was thinking 'bitch') but instead I said "Well, it must be nice to have that problem, I wouldnt know."

I can sympathize..........My BFF is pregnant, 14 wks.......she ONLY decided to start TTC after finding out that I had been trying for a year (we've been pregnant 3x together but for my own shame I tend to keep ttc a secret from people who dont understand which sucks)..........she actually said "Well maybe I should wait until you are pregnant since we all know i'll get pregnant right away" and I just wanted to cry, well I did to DH later that day...........but instead they decided to try since I was starting clomid that month (October)...........well GUESS WHAT, they conceive & we STILL haven't :( and she complains about her pregnancy ALL THE TIME...........she has been my bff for 15 yrs (since we were 9) & I find myself not even being able to see her lately :( Its an awful feeling!

toopicky429
by on Jan. 8, 2013 at 6:56 PM
It doesn't bother me unless they neglect the pregnancy and then the baby. I know several women who were very upset when they got pregnant, but are amazing moms.
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