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im going to go friggin crazy

Posted by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 2:06 AM
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I'm now 9dpo as of 3 hours ago so i took a clear digital and it was negative whats a good hpt i can take before my missed af? Ive been pregnant twice and both times i didn't get a positive test until after i missed my entire period at 6/5 weeks but i don't want to wait that long. ladies helllllp

by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 2:06 AM
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.Peaches.
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 2:14 AM

 Well, if you never got a positive until that late, chances are you're not going to get a positive until that late this time either.

cheetah20
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 2:19 AM

this is so stressful im trying hard not to stress but im so anxious and i dont want to scare hubby this will be his first child and hes nervous because ive been pregnant twice before.

Quoting .Peaches.:

 Well, if you never got a positive until that late, chances are you're not going to get a positive until that late this time either

TTC2Long
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 2:20 AM
I really like the pink dye tests from the dollar store. You can buy a bunch, pee in the cup it comes with or a plastic cup so you can retest to confirm with fmu, if needed. GL!
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cheetah20
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 2:21 AM

thank you ......i feel like im going to cry this is so stressful

Quoting TTC2Long:

I really like the pink dye tests from the dollar store. You can buy a bunch, pee in the cup it comes with or a plastic cup so you can retest to confirm with fmu, if needed. GL!


.Peaches.
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 2:22 AM

 

Quoting cheetah20:

this is so stressful im trying hard not to stress but im so anxious and i dont want to scare hubby this will be his first child and hes nervous because ive been pregnant twice before.

Quoting .Peaches.:

 Well, if you never got a positive until that late, chances are you're not going to get a positive until that late this time either

 You don't have to tell him when you test. When I get my pos, I don't plan on telling my man for at least 3 months, especially after last year's miscarriage. There's no hard and fast rule that says he's gotta know the second you know.

TTC2Long
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 2:25 AM
Wow, really? I mean, do whatever you're comfortable with, but if I miscarried, I'd need my husband's support.

Quoting .Peaches.:

 


Quoting cheetah20:


this is so stressful im trying hard not to stress but im so anxious and i dont want to scare hubby this will be his first child and hes nervous because ive been pregnant twice before.


Quoting .Peaches.:


 Well, if you never got a positive until that late, chances are you're not going to get a positive until that late this time either


 You don't have to tell him when you test. When I get my pos, I don't plan on telling my man for at least 3 months, especially after last year's miscarriage. There's no hard and fast rule that says he's gotta know the second you know.

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cheetah20
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 2:25 AM

i really feel like im going to break down i feel like ive done every thing right this time i even did the opk for the first time pretty easy for me..........im even starting to feel the cramping i felt withmy first but im still so stressed my fear is everything went so right this time around that if i dont get the positive i will be crushed. sorry about your loss i understand the feeling.

Quoting .Peaches.:

 

Quoting cheetah20:

this is so stressful im trying hard not to stress but im so anxious and i dont want to scare hubby this will be his first child and hes nervous because ive been pregnant twice before.

Quoting .Peaches.:

 Well, if you never got a positive until that late, chances are you're not going to get a positive until that late this time either

 You don't have to tell him when you test. When I get my pos, I don't plan on telling my man for at least 3 months, especially after last year's miscarriage. There's no hard and fast rule that says he's gotta know the second you know.


TTC2Long
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 2:26 AM
Aw, ((Hugs)).

Quoting cheetah20:

thank you ......i feel like im going to cry this is so stressful


Quoting TTC2Long:

I really like the pink dye tests from the dollar store. You can buy a bunch, pee in the cup it comes with or a plastic cup so you can retest to confirm with fmu, if needed. GL!


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.Peaches.
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 2:27 AM

 

Quoting cheetah20:

i really feel like im going to break down i feel like ive done every thing right this time i even did the opk for the first time pretty easy for me..........im even starting to feel the cramping i felt withmy first but im still so stressed my fear is everything went so right this time around that if i dont get the positive i will be crushed. sorry about your loss i understand the feeling.

Quoting .Peaches.:

 

Quoting cheetah20:

this is so stressful im trying hard not to stress but im so anxious and i dont want to scare hubby this will be his first child and hes nervous because ive been pregnant twice before.

Quoting .Peaches.:

 Well, if you never got a positive until that late, chances are you're not going to get a positive until that late this time either

 You don't have to tell him when you test. When I get my pos, I don't plan on telling my man for at least 3 months, especially after last year's miscarriage. There's no hard and fast rule that says he's gotta know the second you know.

 

 My personal opinion is to finsh the degree first....or at least work on it while you're pregnan. I know too many women who decided to put the cart before the horse and now feel more trapped than ever.

cheetah20
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 2:28 AM

thanks i just dont want him to feel bad i have one son from a previous relationship and one miscarriage im just a bunch of feelings in one excited nervous anxious

Quoting TTC2Long:

Wow, really? I mean, do whatever you're comfortable with, but if I miscarried, I'd need my husband's support.

Quoting .Peaches.:

 


Quoting cheetah20:


this is so stressful im trying hard not to stress but im so anxious and i dont want to scare hubby this will be his first child and hes nervous because ive been pregnant twice before.


Quoting .Peaches.:


 Well, if you never got a positive until that late, chances are you're not going to get a positive until that late this time either


 You don't have to tell him when you test. When I get my pos, I don't plan on telling my man for at least 3 months, especially after last year's miscarriage. There's no hard and fast rule that says he's gotta know the second you know.


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