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I wanted to strangle my ob

Posted by on Feb. 12, 2013 at 10:58 AM
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I went in just for a follow up since I mc Saturday. He said "it's nearly impossible to get pregnant less than 6 weeks after a previous mc" I was like when I was here 6 weeks ago, my levels were zero. Saturday they were 16. I was pregnant again at some point. Grrr. However, he said next time, to call and he will order a blood test before he will schedule an appointment.
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mama2gg
by on Feb. 12, 2013 at 10:59 AM
That's stupid of him to say find a new ob asap.

Women can O just like normal after an early loss that doesbt require a dnc
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SaGe_Ed
by Georgia on Feb. 12, 2013 at 11:00 AM

I actually thought women were more fertile after a mc.  Sounds like you might want to look into getting a new ob.

ccoyle4
by Caitlin on Feb. 12, 2013 at 11:01 AM
I normally love him, but he seriously pissed me off this morning.
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amberstars
by on Feb. 12, 2013 at 11:04 AM

I've always heard a woman is most fertile after a miscarriage and during the six weeks after child birth.  I'd find a new OB. Sorry for your loss.

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xtriciax
by Gold Member on Feb. 12, 2013 at 11:15 AM

i agree with the other ladies... maybe look into a new doc

over40bride
by Tracy on Feb. 12, 2013 at 11:16 AM
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What a butthole.
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ccoyle4
by Caitlin on Feb. 12, 2013 at 11:34 AM
I normally love him. I'd really hate to start over from scratch with another ob :(

Either way...it was confirmed, no baby. And he doesn't think my vitamin d is an issue.


Quoting xtriciax:

i agree with the other ladies... maybe look into a new doc

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ccoyle4
by Caitlin on Feb. 12, 2013 at 11:35 AM
I agree. I wanted to tell him that I'd see him in another 6 weeks. Lol.

Quoting over40bride:

What a butthole.
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Italiancouture7
by Krystine on Feb. 12, 2013 at 11:37 AM


Quoting SaGe_Ed:

I actually thought women were more fertile after a mc.  Sounds like you might want to look into getting a new ob.

I agree I heard this as well. Sounds like your OB is confused.

ZennMomma
by Silver Member on Feb. 12, 2013 at 11:44 AM

I ovulated 2 weeks after starting to bleed at my last chemical....

Every Body is different. Maybe he was just having a crabby day, we're all human, shit happens.

if you still have confidence in him providing good care then stay, but yeah that was kind of silly of him.

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