he never wants to bd. he only wants play sex. i ask him if he wants to be preventing and he says no. but then i can't get him going when it's time to try. i'm so frustrated. i try really hard not to even tell him that i'm ovulating, but he turns me down anyway. today i put on makeup and did my hair and cooked a nice dinner. and....nothing! i've got my cycles in a good place right now and he's still not trying and doing his part!