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stressed its been a long 18 months of tryin for a baby

Posted by on Feb. 17, 2013 at 4:38 AM
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my hopes of a baby are almost gone am starting to let my self go always have headeches or always sleeping from being depresed am going to stop tring bcuz off all the saddness that comes with it after getting a negative every month plz I need support ladies
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charm2mama
by Bronze Member on Feb. 17, 2013 at 7:23 AM

I'm sorry hun

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Having you been tracking ovulation? Or have you gone to the doctor to see if anything is going on?

WOFFT
by Silver Member on Feb. 17, 2013 at 7:29 AM
Sorry Hun, I haven't tried as much as you have but amm depressed sometimes. Have you seen a Dr and both you and your SO confirmed Ok? If yes, then maybe you should relax a bit, try NTNP but continue taking your Prenatals/Folic Acid. Stop the things that stress you out while TTC. Do more fun things and enjoy your SO. I know its hard, but just try as much as you can to stop stressing. And remember we're always here to support you, so vent when you feel like it or share whatever you feel like at any time. I pray It happens for you soon. (((Hugs)))
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Arizbethurias
by on Feb. 17, 2013 at 11:47 AM
I havent tried that only bcuz I dont want to put my self down with that too but I took some fertility test n they all come back positive tjx so much for support


Quoting charm2mama:

I'm sorry hun

hugs

Having you been tracking ovulation? Or have you gone to the doctor to see if anything is going on?


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Arizbethurias
by on Feb. 17, 2013 at 11:52 AM
no I havent gonne to the dr bcuz am scared of the results and my husband has a 3 yr old so I know am tje problem and yes I will continue with prenatals and folic asid thx so much for sipport an hope u can consive soon as well gl


Quoting WOFFT:

Sorry Hun, I haven't tried as much as you have but amm depressed sometimes. Have you seen a Dr and both you and your SO confirmed Ok? If yes, then maybe you should relax a bit, try NTNP but continue taking your Prenatals/Folic Acid. Stop the things that stress you out while TTC. Do more fun things and enjoy your SO. I know its hard, but just try as much as you can to stop stressing. And remember we're always here to support you, so vent when you feel like it or share whatever you feel like at any time. I pray It happens for you soon. (((Hugs)))

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Herlache
by Jessie on Feb. 17, 2013 at 11:53 AM
Some times when you stop trying that's when it happens gl
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Arizbethurias
by on Feb. 17, 2013 at 11:58 AM
thxs so much I might do that


Quoting Herlache:

Some times when you stop trying that's when it happens gl

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SaGe_Ed
by Georgia on Feb. 17, 2013 at 12:01 PM

(((hugs)))

I've been there.  It took us 7 years to get our first.  I really recommend you going to a doctor.  It might sound depressing, but in reality once you know if there is something wrong, it's easy to get on the road to fixing it.  I was stubborn with our first, never went to a doc to see what might be wrong.  She is our miracle baby.  Decided I didn't want to wait another 7 years for our second, went to see an RE and found out it was as simple as low progesterone. 

Also, just because your dh has one baby does not automatically make it your fault if you guys don't have one together.  Things can change, people's health changes.

At any rate, it sounds like you might just want to take some time off from ttc for a while if you're not going to go to a doctor.  Sometimes relaxing and letting nature take it's course is all it takes to get that BFP.  Good luck!

toopicky429
by Jackie on Feb. 17, 2013 at 12:03 PM
Just because your husband has a child does not mean you are the problem. Since it sounds like your depression is pretty bad, you really should see your doctor about that. Good luck and I hope you feel better soon!
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Arizbethurias
by on Feb. 17, 2013 at 12:26 PM
thx for ur advice I am going to go so if theres something fixable I can fix it asap thx


Quoting SaGe_Ed:

(((hugs)))

I've been there.  It took us 7 years to get our first.  I really recommend you going to a doctor.  It might sound depressing, but in reality once you know if there is something wrong, it's easy to get on the road to fixing it.  I was stubborn with our first, never went to a doc to see what might be wrong.  She is our miracle baby.  Decided I didn't want to wait another 7 years for our second, went to see an RE and found out it was as simple as low progesterone. 

Also, just because your dh has one baby does not automatically make it your fault if you guys don't have one together.  Things can change, people's health changes.

At any rate, it sounds like you might just want to take some time off from ttc for a while if you're not going to go to a doctor.  Sometimes relaxing and letting nature take it's course is all it takes to get that BFP.  Good luck!


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Arizbethurias
by on Feb. 17, 2013 at 12:27 PM
thx maybe I will take some time off ttc n get myself back together thank u so much


Quoting toopicky429:

Just because your husband has a child does not mean you are the problem. Since it sounds like your depression is pretty bad, you really should see your doctor about that. Good luck and I hope you feel better soon!

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