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UPDATE PAGE FOUR ugh my sister

Posted by on Apr. 3, 2013 at 10:30 AM
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So my sister (the one who got pregnant accidentally, stole my baby name, brags/complains all the time) is having her first ultrasound today. All she's done is complain about how its going to hurt (wand) and asking for sympathy. The doctor suspects twins so we will find out today I guess. Her and my mom have no sympathy for anything I've been through lately. My mom thinks my infertility is hilarious and texts me pics of kids to adopt. (Like teens of other races who have severe disabilities ..hilarious, right?) When I found out I had less than 1% chance of ever having natural pregnancy she said to just get over it. But my poor sister has to have an ultrasound....gasp! Ha! Nobody cared when I had mine. Ill have several more if I do iui. Ugh. Sick of this
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GwenMB
by Gwen on Apr. 3, 2013 at 10:32 AM
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Oh my, how do you resist the urge to slap her silly?  Obviously a very immature response, but I'd have a hard time resisting.  (((hugs)))

storkneedsgps
by on Apr. 3, 2013 at 10:34 AM
Poor thing, only gets one week long trip to Floridian instead of two because of the pregnancy, can't drink soda or buy a big truck. That's all I hear. We were very close but now I'm about to cut her off


Quoting GwenMB:

Oh my, how do you resist the urge to slap her silly?  Obviously a very immature response, but I'd have a hard time resisting.  (((hugs)))


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IansMommy2012
by on Apr. 3, 2013 at 10:37 AM
Ouch :( I'm sorry. So what r u guys gonna do? ( about getting pregnant) is there other options you can try? Sorry I don't mean to pry if I am. Just trying to help get your mind off everything :(
*HUGS*
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fleurmegs
by on Apr. 3, 2013 at 10:40 AM

Wow.  I just wouldn't be around them anyone.  And I wouldn't tell them anything anymore, because it's obviously just hurtful to you and they don't really care.  Just keep things superficial.  Unfortunately we can't pick our families...

You are probably looking for support in them and you're not going to get it.  I think you'll feel better (and actually less alone) if you just cut them out of the information loop of your life.  You've got your DH (and us!).

And sorry you're being treated terribly (and those poor kids are used as a joke, they actually really NEED families to love them!).

MrsLondon
by on Apr. 3, 2013 at 10:42 AM

Cut them both off!

Libby22
by on Apr. 3, 2013 at 10:42 AM

 Your family sounds toxic. If I were you I would distance myself from them until they can be genuinely supportive. You have a new family with DH now. Let him be there for you while you work through your issues. I just have such a feeling you're going to get good results from your new specialist!

storkneedsgps
by on Apr. 3, 2013 at 10:45 AM
Going to try iui


Quoting IansMommy2012:

Ouch :( I'm sorry. So what r u guys gonna do? ( about getting pregnant) is there other options you can try? Sorry I don't mean to pry if I am. Just trying to help get your mind off everything :(

*HUGS*

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katamike
by Silver Member on Apr. 3, 2013 at 10:47 AM

 Aww, I am so sorry hun! I wish you had more support! I HATE when all pregnant ladies do is complain about the baby, or say they never wanted it in the first place :( We just lost our baby on the 1st after ttc for 5 years. I was just starting to feel morning sickness and I was actually happy. Your time will come hun! Keep your head up! Those are terrible things to go through ttc. Especally when she texts you pics as a joke? that is downright mean. I would try to not talk to them  for awhile. All the added stress is not helping you. ((hugs))

4ever_a_memory
by Casey on Apr. 3, 2013 at 10:48 AM

Seriously she says the ultrasound is going to hurt, that is such a load of crock it may be uncomfortable to some but it doesnt hurt especially since MOST people are so excited to see their baby they dont even notice it. I would slap the piss out of her. Hugs hun

Proud-mama-05
by Stacy on Apr. 3, 2013 at 10:52 AM
I agree with this. I'm sorry they're being so insensitive to what your going through. I wish you the best of luck and hope you have a successful iui when you decide to go through with it.


Quoting Libby22:

 Your family sounds toxic. If I were you I would distance myself from them until they can be genuinely supportive. You have a new family with DH now. Let him be there for you while you work through your issues. I just have such a feeling you're going to get good results from your new specialist!


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