Why can't people keep their opinions to themselves?!
So, I was at Walmart and decided to pick up some pregnancy tests because I used them all last month, and as I'm picking the box off the shelf a lady I know walks up. (I say I know her because we aren't friends. We aren't not friends either. We're military and our husbands are on the same flight, so I "know" her lol.) But she says "oh no, you think you might be pregnant? I'm sorry". What the heck! Who says something like that?? So I say, "I'm not sure yet, hence the tests, and we'd be happy because we've been trying." She just blankly stares at me for about 30 seconds like I just said the most incomprehensive thing in the world, and then said "you're TRYING to have a 4th kid? Why? That's a lot of kids.". OMG I wanted to punch her in the face! Why do people think their opinions of my family size are important or that they should be voiced? My brother told me when I mentioned we were trying for #3 that I already have enough kids, and I don't need another--needless to say I haven't mentioned to him or the rest of the fam that were trying again. I would never go up to someone and say "you have/don't have enough kids, you should/shouldn't have another". GRRRR, some people!!