I was wrong. DH and I talked last night and he is on board.
He told me to find out exact costs for labs, meds and IVF.
He then will go over our finaces with our finacial planner.
If everything checks out we will be moving forward! :D
The good news.
Meet with my "old" RE today. He told me my chances of conceiving with IVF start at 18% but go up to 50% by the third try.
He has a big success rate using frozen embryos.
The bad news.
According yo my AMH levels I only have 6 months left of TTC and the cost including the meds and blood work would be in the 20K range for one transfer plus 2 frozen cycles.
My "new" RE had given me 5% or under chance of conceiving with IVF and that was based on my AMH levels from last year which were double what they are now and by her success rates.
Her price for "natural" IVF (low dose meds) is 7K
The biggest of the bad news.
I'm about 95% sure DH will not want to spend the 20K. We have talked in the past and it was pretty much out of the question.
I have only spoken to him briefly on the phone (he is at work) but he said we will talk more tonight.
I pretty much know what he is going to say. I am preparing myself to be ready for our dreams of having a child of our own together to be over. I thought they were over anyway because of the odds my "new" RE had given me. So, I know I can do this. I will be ok. This is what I keep telling myself.
It's just so hard knowing it's really over now.