So dh and I have decided that we aren't going to tell anyone that we are trying and we aren't going to overthink it and be obsessed about it (like we have been in the past) but I just want to tell someone! I know our reasonings are good and valid but it's so hard to keep it all to myself. I don't want to hear people's opinions of if we are really ready or maybe we should keep waiting a few more years (as I know that's what my mom's opinion would be) and I know that when I do get pregnant, I want to wait until 10 to 12 weeks before I tell anyone (including my mom) because of my 2 miscarriages being so early on. It's just very hard to stay silent about it all except with dh. Is anyone else not letting anyone know you're TTC?