Okay this is going to sound a little strange (well for me it does). I have seen many of you wonderful ladies post about Soft cups and using them during TTCing. So I decided that if I don't get my BFP this cycle I am going to "try" them next cycle along with preseed. I've been looking Soft Cups up online to try to figure out how to use them. Now this is were it gets strange....Its all confusing to me! I have only switched to tampons a few years ago. I've tried tampons before, but it hurt (I did not know how to properly put them in and I have scare tissue in that area from past abuse...TMI sorry). So as I am reading, they are not put in like tampons you are suppose to push them straight back and up a little bit if I am reading this correctly. Then I also read that you should ask your doctor if you should use them if you have a tilted uterus. I was told when I was pregnant with my first two that my uterus was tilted. I really don't feel like having to go into see my doctor to ask this question. Any of you ladies have a tilted uterus and still use them? I will not be using them during AF as I will stick with the tampons for now. Also has anyone used preseed before? I read preseed helps provide sperm the fluids to get to the egg, does this also help if they are not very good swimmers also? We are unsure how my DH is as we would like to keep trying on our own before he gets checked out.