I have avoided the conflict but I have to say this....
I am tired of women coming in here and being rude to the women who have been through HELL on their TTC journey!! I have seen it two days in a row now. I understand that this happens occasionally! But its uncalled for. And people need to seriously grow the heck up!! If you have not struggled with INFERTILITY, true infertility! Not just Oh it took me 2 months to get pregnant. I am talking true years of TTC. Of if you haven't struggle with conceiving and losing one child after another then you have no clue what its like. And you have no right to be rude to people who have been through it. Nor do you have the right to offer any kind of sound advice. How can you? You don't know what its like. Ultimately if you can't support EVERYONE in this group, especially the ladies who have struggled to conceive or carry a baby then you need to go else where. There are wonderful groups called Mom Confessions or The Newcombers Club where you can be a bitch all day long. And you can get the same bitchiness back. But here we try to support one another, we try to understand other peoples struggles, and we try to be kind to one another. If you can't get with it then get out. Because I will fight for the long time TTCers in this group! They have supported me through each of my struggles, and each of my pregnancies. And they have offered support to many of you even when their own hearts are aching! They deserve your support or for you to shut the hell up and move on!! Get with it TTCers. Our group is not a drop in cause drama and leave. Our group is made up with amazing women, from all different walks of life, who build relationships, and cheer eachother on!!
And excuse the language, I don't like reading it myself, and I certainly don't like saying. But yall need a little "wake the heck up" moment. So I used words hopefully everyone understands!!
Hypnautica, Tiff, Mom2five87 and you other TTC mommas who have been through it the last few days