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thinking about having another baby

Posted by on Dec. 30, 2008 at 1:53 PM
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ok, so my husband and i are thinkin about havin another baby but im not sure i want to at the moment. we have 2 beautiful daughters, Jojo 5(SD) and Jasmine 18 mon. i would love to have another baby, he really wants his boy. Jasmine is still havin a bottle for nap time and bedtime, she isnt ready for potty training yet and likes to kick when i change her diaper and step/play around on me. i guess im just worried how she will act and if it will be harder. Jojo lives with her mom rite now in NC, and we will be getting her for the summer and x-mas '09. i want a baby but not sure im totally ready b/c of jasmine. does anybody have any advice for me?

Posted by on Dec. 30, 2008 at 1:53 PM
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Bren07
by Silver Member on Dec. 30, 2008 at 2:11 PM

im not sure wut to tell u...if u want a baby then try for one..my son is 19months in a few days and im 12wks pregnant with #2..my son loves to hug and kiss my belly, and u can ask him "where's the baby?" or "where's ur baby?" and he will point to my belly or lift my shirt and show my belly...it's always gonna be hard introducing a new baby to a toddler but u can always talk to ur DD and see wut her reaction is and if she even understands...but like i said im not really sure wut to tell u...

OH BUT, if u dont think ur ready then dont do it yet

JasminesMommy06
by on Dec. 30, 2008 at 9:32 PM

i may just have to sit and think on it for a lil bit longer and see what my 18 month old does about trying to talk to her about it

babygirl13
by on Dec. 30, 2008 at 9:35 PM

If you dont think youre ready, then dont try. You need to make sure you're ready before yall start trying.


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Joanne28
by on Dec. 30, 2008 at 10:08 PM

l say you should wait until afer this summer to TTC. Its 8 months away and will come faster than you think! Your daughter will be 2  and ready for potty training. She should be out of diapers for the most part by the time you have the newborn in June 2010. And then your daughter will be starting pre-school in September.

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