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Is your life going as planned?

Posted by on Mar. 13, 2010 at 7:51 PM
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My life isn't going the way I thought it would but I can say I'm loving it. It will somehow fall in my plans eventually but I wouldn't change a thing...

How about you all?

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JayBearsmomma
by Rachael on Mar. 13, 2010 at 7:55 PM

 O God no my life is no where near what i planned it to be, but amazing things have happened and i cant wait to see whats in store for my future. Hopefully no more pain and heart break and only good is to come.

penguinbabe44
by on Mar. 13, 2010 at 7:59 PM


Quoting JayBearsmomma:

 O God no my life is no where near what i planned it to be, but amazing things have happened and i cant wait to see whats in store for my future. Hopefully no more pain and heart break and only good is to come.

I agree...no more pain or heartache. But some pretty amazing things have happened to me also along the way and I've had a lot of fun. It's funner when you don't know what's about to happen and the most amazing thing is that I have my beautiful daughter out of all of this...

Everything will work itself out so don't worry and you have your little JayBear so that's the most precious thing ever. Also it's sort of hard being in an interracial relationship but I wouldn't trade that off either...

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Caitlinsmom09
by Member on Mar. 13, 2010 at 8:02 PM

Not really. I had planned on my own house with a huge family. And A nice career. And simply just a stable loving home. I'm not even close to being there yet but I do have my daughter and that is the best thing I could have ever hoped for. I am loving every minute as her mother despite outside crap!

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JayBearsmomma
by Rachael on Mar. 13, 2010 at 8:03 PM

 Yeah interracial relationships are hard but they equal beautiful babies. Plus everything we go through at such a young age will make us so much stronger as adults. well i mean like in our 30's in stuff lol we are obviously adults now since we have children. lol

mamajen07
by on Mar. 13, 2010 at 9:25 PM

nope, but i can't really say i planned a life for me anyways =)

Noahs-mommy09
by on Mar. 13, 2010 at 9:29 PM

My life is nowhere CLOSE to what I planned. I planned on having a car and my own place by now, but I got pregnant and that threw my plans off and post-partum depression is making it harder. So now, I won't be completely independent until sometime 2011. I can't wait for that day!

LittleKrittle
by on Mar. 13, 2010 at 10:07 PM

simply put- no.

MomNtheRes
by on Mar. 13, 2010 at 10:13 PM

Hahahaaaaa- HELL NO!

Got knocked up at 17, got into some...>AHEM< interesting money making investments for a while, joined the Army to get out of that, met my man and married him 7 months later, and am now expecting number 2. 

Totally NOT the 4 years of college after highschool it was supposed to be! But I'm happy :)

pisces_chick89
by on Mar. 14, 2010 at 3:16 AM

i dont have a plan...its to avoid dissapointment

rachelv817
by on Mar. 14, 2010 at 3:20 AM

 NOT AT ALL!  I figured I would be married, in a nice little house with a yard, have 2-3 kids running around and my husband would have a 9-5 job and we'd be a lovely little family.  Instead we are living at his mom's house, have been TTC with no luck for 1-3 years (depending on what you consider TTC) he works 2 jobs and is home weird hours.  But my husband is wonderful and I wouldn't trade him for my planned life.

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