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I can't stand my dh!

Posted by on Jun. 27, 2010 at 12:32 AM
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I know it's normal for your sex life to get kind if old, but it's more that that. I just can't stand to be with my dh sexually. It makes me sick to my stomach and I can't enjoy one second. Is there something wrong with me? Is there anyone else going through this?
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MrsDuNn06
by on Jun. 27, 2010 at 12:38 AM

 are you depressed at all?

lind.shep
by on Jun. 27, 2010 at 12:41 AM
No I am just fine. Much better than I have been in quite a while, actually.
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militarywife09
by on Jun. 27, 2010 at 12:46 AM
Sorry im no help, I wish I could have sex with my hubby 24\7, but here is a BUMP.
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fotomom07
by on Jun. 27, 2010 at 12:48 AM

I went through a phase of this when I felt like my dh had lost all of his charm and romance.  I explained to him that he never even kissed me anymore.  (an exaggeration, he gave quick pecks, but he didn't "kiss" me anymore).  There was no sign of him trying to "woo" me or anything.  At first he didn't understand what I was talking about, but after a couple of times of us talking through the situations he finally got what I was saying.  It was amazing how much more I became attracted to him once he started behaving sweeter and more romantically.

Lisa

toolmommy
by on Jun. 27, 2010 at 12:51 AM

Looks like you have a LO. How old is she? Could it be a hormonal thing? My friend went through her pregnancy just despising her dh and they didn't have sex for a long time, but after the postpartum period, it was better. Just a thought! GL, mama!

lind.shep
by on Jun. 27, 2010 at 1:04 AM
My dh complains that I don kis him the way I use to... I just can't. I have no interest.

I have a 19 month old and a 7 month old, both go to bed fairly early in their own room...
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2callmemom09
by on Jun. 27, 2010 at 1:13 AM
Are you on birth control? If so which kind?
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lind.shep
by on Jun. 27, 2010 at 1:24 AM
Nope, we use the good ol' condom...


Quoting 2callmemom09:

Are you on birth control? If so which kind?

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lind.shep
by on Jun. 27, 2010 at 1:26 AM
We have only been married for a year and a half. Most of the time I just feel the way I think I should about him. Maybe that's it?
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2callmemom09
by on Jun. 27, 2010 at 1:26 AM
Yikes, I have no clue then. I was on the depo once and felt like you do.
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