I WAS A CHILD OF MOLESTATION

[myzunderstood]

when i was 10 i was outside my granny house playing in the mud and my cousin saw me and asked me if i wated some candy(which is the way to any kid's heart) so i told him yea and he had me to follow him to his car. well he asked me to get in and without any questions i did as i was told since i was suppose to listen to adults. when i got in he started telling me how pretty i was and then he started kissing and touching me. i knew it was wrong but i was afraid t say anything. then he began to show me his private areas and asked if i wanted to touch him. he started to try and undress me i tried to run but he held tighter...then a car pulled up in the drive way and blowed the horn...saved by the bell...until ths day CafeMomers, and my DH are the only ones who know about this i dont know how to tell anyone else. have any of yo been a child of molestation?

[roxy1984]

Yes

[Slimpikinz23]

Not molestation, but he did drill a hole in my ceiling and hid in my closets to watch me..

[steffielou_who]

I was molested when I was about 5 or 6.. He was my neighbor & he was handicap.. I would go visit him and talk to him on his porch.. One day, I was playing in his yard and clearly remember what i was wearing (Light purple Florida shirt & purple shorts) and what happened.. He held a bb gun up high and told me to take my shirt off and i did,.. Then my sister came outside & made me come home.. No one ever believed it because he was handi cap & not capable of that kind of thing! He used to take me beside his house & "goose" me.. I thought it was a game.. =( Sadly, to this day my parents are still friends with him and i keep my distance.. they invite him over to visit and everything.. My sister is the only one who believes me because she witnessed it with her own eyes.. Makes me sad & I have issues because of it.. =(

[itspimpy]

Yes.

[lust2dust]

I was at the age of five and then again at thirteen. It is hard the only person who believes me is my brother and my wonderful husband. It is hard I still have issues with it but I can't bring myself to talk about it much. I'm sorry you went through that but just realize that you are not alone!

[Simply-blissful]

yes. the first time i was 2years old and i do not remember it. my mom said it was bad and she only found out becuase my older sister finally spoke up about what was going on. the doctors say i have mently blocked it and to be honest im kind of glad. the 2ed time i was being babysat by a family friend because my mom had to take my sister to the er for a fever. well i was sleeping and he came in trying to mess with me i told him i was scared and i wanted him to leave he thankfully did and i never told anyone because i was scared. my mom still doesnt know :/. i have also had a weird feeling about men i didnt know after that. like i dont trust any of them whenim alone with them. dh was the only guy i didnt feel that with. he is also the only that i have done anything with. and to be honest i think it all has todo with what happen to me. if you feel you need to tell a family member about it i say do it. dont be scared to hold it back. if its really eatting at you inside share it. talking about it will help you.

[myzunderstood]

i have issues about it myself....i dont even look at some men the same way. its like i can look at a man and tell you that he "looks" like a rapist or something. my own husband gets upset sometimes when i snatch away from him when he is trying to be intimate with me. i dont do it out of spite its only because i seem to have "flashbacks" :-\

Quoting steffielou_who:

I was molested when I was about 5 or 6.. He was my neighbor & he was handicap.. I would go visit him and talk to him on his porch.. One day, I was playing in his yard and clearly remember what i was wearing (Light purple Florida shirt & purple shorts) and what happened.. He held a bb gun up high and told me to take my shirt off and i did,.. Then my sister came outside & made me come home.. No one ever believed it because he was handi cap & not capable of that kind of thing! He used to take me beside his house & "goose" me.. I thought it was a game.. =( Sadly, to this day my parents are still friends with him and i keep my distance.. they invite him over to visit and everything.. My sister is the only one who believes me because she witnessed it with her own eyes.. Makes me sad & I have issues because of it.. =(

[militarywife09]

Idk if I was, when I was 7 my cousin made me have dry sex with him. I wanted him to play some board game and he told me he would if I let him do that, so I said ok. Then I tried to get him to stop but he didnt, I dont know how long it lasted, but we were both fully clothed. I acctually have never told anyone that, not even my hubby. Like I said I dont know if it was molestation, I dont even know what it was, but I was scared as hell.

[stirfry247]

yes i have i was at a friends home sleeping over i was 11 and woke up with his hand in my pj. scary

[JayBearsmomma]

 I was never molested but i was raped twice. once at 16 and once at 17 the first by a complete stranger and once by some one i thought was my friend. I never talked about it. i went to the hospital the first time because i was beatin very badly but the second i kept a secrete. holding it in was not a good idea because i started believeing i was worth nothing. i had kept my virginity all this time to have it stolen from me. i just strated seeing a councler about a year ago and it helped alot. i suggest going and seeing a councler. there are alot of non profit organizations with counclers u could talk to.