why :(

[Dino2012]

I understood that I was making a choice in my life to be a mother at 16. and at first my friends were so excited and still talked to me. and it didn't bother em' I was pregnant. but now i'm 22 weeks. i'm showing already. but now out of no where i've noticed that out of school since the beginning of november nobody texted me to hang or anything and if I texted em' it was really short convo like they didn't really wanna talk to me so I stoped trying and they never talk to me. they all wanna talk to me in person at school because they don't wanna seem fake and not wanting to be my friend. my own bestfriend barely even talks to me. and it hurts me more that all my friends do this to me. it wouldn't hurt as much if they just over all stopped talking to me. and it just hurts more then my boyfriend like the only person who wants be with me. my sisters aren't always wanting too. unless they feel bad and they take it. or they are just being nice that the only time I ever go out is with my boyfriend. which is quite often but i'm getting to the point where I just wanna be at home and be home instructed cause i'm just tired of everyone being fake around me. its just making it worse. and I know half of who say o i'm gunna be an auntie and i'm gunna visit you when the baby born is a load of crap! I don't believe it! and only my boyfriend best friend is super nice to me and everytime he sees me he always says hi and asked how I am. and he's a guy but he's really nice and I love when he hangs out with me and my boyfriend and his girlfriend comes cause she's always very nice to me :) and we use to talk all the time before highschool and had no classes till now. but still its not much :(
I guess I just need some words to help me feel better. a friend or two. :(

[samantha_0219]

you should be grateful.... I just realize I should too. Cus at our age (when i was younger.lol) its common for the guy to just bounce and leave us with the load. Im happy with my man. Thank god for my sexy hubbs. Hahahaha. (;

Quoting Dino2012:

thanks! I do try seeing it that way. but I see em' all the time so its like a slap in the face.and I get more pissed when they blame me! and my bf is the only one who toys to understand and make me feel better. but he's everything to me so I have to be thankful he's with me :)

Quoting samantha_0219:

i know exactly how u feel. Im 19 wit two kids... My friends were fake too. Fuk em i dont need em as long as i got my man and kids and i know he has my back im koo. Dont got time for fakes. More time for my family.... Thats how i see it. Youll soon realize it too.

[JayBearsmomma]

I mean did u really think all ur teenage friends were gonna want to have to accomadate you because ur pregnant, u cnt do half of the stuff they would want to do so unfortunatly it is normal and common for teen moms to lose most if not all of ur friends. My son is my one and only friend and honestly he was worth it and I know I will eventually make better friends who can relate to my situation

[Dino2012]

llike I know that was gunna to but they all fake. that's what bothers me.

Quoting JayBearsmomma:

I mean did u really think all ur teenage friends were gonna want to have to accomadate you because ur pregnant, u cnt do half of the stuff they would want to do so unfortunatly it is normal and common for teen moms to lose most if not all of ur friends. My son is my one and only friend and honestly he was worth it and I know I will eventually make better friends who can relate to my situation

[Dino2012]

trust me I am. i'm more then thankful for the guy I have <3 and awwwww.

Quoting samantha_0219:

you should be grateful.... I just realize I should too. Cus at our age (when i was younger.lol) its common for the guy to just bounce and leave us with the load. Im happy with my man. Thank god for my sexy hubbs. Hahahaha. (;

Quoting Dino2012:

thanks! I do try seeing it that way. but I see em' all the time so its like a slap in the face.and I get more pissed when they blame me! and my bf is the only one who toys to understand and make me feel better. but he's everything to me so I have to be thankful he's with me :)

Quoting samantha_0219:

i know exactly how u feel. Im 19 wit two kids... My friends were fake too. Fuk em i dont need em as long as i got my man and kids and i know he has my back im koo. Dont got time for fakes. More time for my family.... Thats how i see it. Youll soon realize it too.

[blapier]

My friends were the same. even at my baby shower none of them showed up because they were out getting drunk. I told everyone of them who was fake towards me I didn't wanna bother with them. I still have friends who I talk to and hangout with but I lost a majority of them because I wasn't living that teen life anymore. It is hard at first but them being fake towards you is just gonna make you hurt worse, if their being fake towards you say something to them. Maybe it'll make them realzie what they are doing to you. I'm glad your bf is there for you. Keep your head up, everything will be okay!♥

[Dino2012]

thanks for the support. :) maybe i'll try that and see how that goes. and i'm thankful for my boyfriend also. and atleast you had a few friends. :)

Quoting blapier:

My friends were the same. even at my baby shower none of them showed up because they were out getting drunk. I told everyone of them who was fake towards me I didn't wanna bother with them. I still have friends who I talk to and hangout with but I lost a majority of them because I wasn't living that teen life anymore. It is hard at first but them being fake towards you is just gonna make you hurt worse, if their being fake towards you say something to them. Maybe it'll make them realzie what they are doing to you. I'm glad your bf is there for you. Keep your head up, everything will be okay!♥

[blapier]

Yeah, but most of those friends were my husbands friends girlfriends so I guess it doesn't really count because they weren't my friends who I grew up with. It's deff. hard but no matter what happens jsut keep thinking to yourself how loved your gonna be by your baby and your bf. Their all you need!♥

[Friskey85]

 yes i do got someone new in my life, hes great, hes my other half, we think alike and we ca finish each others sentences without even trying.

Quoting Dino2012:

awwww that sucks. people are such assholes! like some people I swear never grow up out of high school -___- I always get told I act older then my age. but that's cause stupid people get annoying and i'm gunna be a mother and you have the roll of doing almost everything its hard not to be. and you have a new guy in your life, right? and you always have your kids :)

Quoting Friskey85:

 i got married at 19, had my first when i was just 20, all my friends did the same damn thing yours are doing, im 26 now, divorced and i have 2 kids and i still have no friends. whenever i see someone i knew or hung out with back in the day they avoid me or make real small talk, then just talk behind my back about me. i have a new relationship and he ditched most of his friends because they need to grow up. so i totally feel your pain here... and it does really suck.... ive tried getting new friends, ones that have kids but it never works out.

 

[Dino2012]

well better then none. my boyfriend bestfriend girlfriend my friend. :) so its not that bad. and yeah, I try. but sometimes it just gets to me.

Quoting blapier:

Yeah, but most of those friends were my husbands friends girlfriends so I guess it doesn't really count because they weren't my friends who I grew up with. It's deff. hard but no matter what happens jsut keep thinking to yourself how loved your gonna be by your baby and your bf. Their all you need!♥

[Dino2012]

aawwww, well that's great :) you seem very happy with him.

Quoting Friskey85:

 yes i do got someone new in my life, hes great, hes my other half, we think alike and we ca finish each others sentences without even trying.

Quoting Dino2012:

awwww that sucks. people are such assholes! like some people I swear never grow up out of high school -___- I always get told I act older then my age. but that's cause stupid people get annoying and i'm gunna be a mother and you have the roll of doing almost everything its hard not to be. and you have a new guy in your life, right? and you always have your kids :)

Quoting Friskey85:

 i got married at 19, had my first when i was just 20, all my friends did the same damn thing yours are doing, im 26 now, divorced and i have 2 kids and i still have no friends. whenever i see someone i knew or hung out with back in the day they avoid me or make real small talk, then just talk behind my back about me. i have a new relationship and he ditched most of his friends because they need to grow up. so i totally feel your pain here... and it does really suck.... ive tried getting new friends, ones that have kids but it never works out.