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just need to vent :(

Posted by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 12:23 AM
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i dont even know where to start .... but my feelings for my bf haved slowly went away . when we found out i was pregnant . we got into 2 big fights . him coming back and us forgiving each other . but i feel like recently like i havent been feeling it at all . like dont want to be bothered with him at all . i feel like if i wasnt pregnant . i wouldnt be still dealing with him . i just wish i found all this out before i got pregnant . its not the babys fault and i wouldnt get a abortion . but he just doesnt make the situation any better . i pay for all the bills and now on top , having to get ready for this baby . when we talked about me getting my apartment . he told me he would get a job and help me . well 5 months later and he still hasnt . im just fed up with him . i dont know what i should do . any advice ? would be highly appericated !
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BigMama925
by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 12:58 AM
-hugs- have a serious talk with him and give him a time limit. Depending how ur relationship is, if he shows no effort, give him the boot! I had to kick my husband out for not wanting to work while I was prego AND working AND going to school.then I had our son and he wouldnt watch him because he was hooked on porn! Im a sahm of 3 with no fam support and handling it fine.. Theres alot if sources fir help, just research! You have alot on ur plate but if u see ur bf isnt as serious as u about ur baby, do what you must sweetie, forget his feelings, he's a grown ass man!
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BrownEyedGirl86
by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 1:03 AM
Talk to him tell him how you are feeling.

You don't need him I. Your life to be in the child's.
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lalamama92
by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 1:16 AM
Yeah i talked to him about it and he was just acting childish about the whole thing . like his not taking it seriously . and i pay for all the pays and now im gonna have to buy my babys what he\she needs and if his not wanting to help then he dont need to be in my face
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mamababies3
by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 11:41 AM

He has shown what he is going to do currently. He could change after the baby is here. But for now, get your own apartment, and get ready for the baby. Do what you need to do. You will feel so much better knowing you are ready, and things are moving forward.

lalamama92
by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 1:49 PM
I have my own apartment . he lives in my crib and doesnt pay for shit .
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