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ugh stress!!!

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waddell0221

on Feb. 13, 2012 at 9:38 PM

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me and my fiance keep fighting and keep throwing shit in eachothers faces..!!! we can not get over things that happened in the past any advice help..!!!

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waddell0221

on Feb. 13, 2012 at 9:38 PM

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bigmama423

Liz on Feb. 13, 2012 at 9:43 PM

All I can say, is you have to let by gones be by gones. It isn't easy, but if you want your relationship to work you both will have to bend. I've been married for 7 years and we have had lots of fights along the way!

Good luck!!

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lovealot0587

Gold Member on Feb. 14, 2012 at 10:05 PM

me and my SO have had our fights in the past and we have done that... we through things in each other's face bc we know what buttons it pushes... doing that only makes it worse.. you should both walk away calm down and then talk it out.... good luck

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Bethany on Feb. 14, 2012 at 11:14 PM

Quoting bigmama423:

All I can say, is you have to let by gones be by gones. It isn't easy, but if you want your relationship to work you both will have to bend. I've been married for 7 years and we have had lots of fights along the way!
Good luck!!

I agree! I've been in my relationship for 6 years though. :P

misslady80013

on Feb. 14, 2012 at 11:26 PM

Maybe couples therapy, it's making things better for us. We are learning to communicate better. Like, we are actually listening to each other and saying what we need or how we are feeling without making the other defensive. Hope it gets better! We have been together 5 years in July.

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heather4511

Gold Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 8:17 AM

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It's hard but if you two have already discussed the past, talked about moving on, and the issues havent come back again...then don't bring them up. Avoid the topics that cause hard feelings.

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Esther on Feb. 15, 2012 at 11:21 AM

I agree with this.

Quoting bigmama423:

All I can say, is you have to let by gones be by gones. It isn't easy, but if you want your relationship to work you both will have to bend. I've been married for 7 years and we have had lots of fights along the way!
Good luck!!