I guess I will start at the beginning. I am 17 years old, and my boyfriend of a year and a half is 18. We are expecting a baby the end of June. My boyfriend has never once had a job. Never even attempted. His mother literally gives him everything he wants. She bitches when he asks, but always gives in. I on the other hand have been working since I turned 16 last June. I was just working at Goodwill, and when I got pregnant had to quite due to the lifting I would have to do. I have tried to find other easy jobs, but no one will hire me now.
The problem? My boyfriend has still yet to try to get a job. Im getting really concerned that he isnt going to get one, and as soon as the baby is born, I will have to get a job. He does go to college, but not all day. he goes at 8 in the morning, and is back in town by 3. Leaving the rest of the day to work....but no. I have brought this up to him many times, and so does his mom. All he says is dont worry ill get a job. Nothing yet.
We do have all the big things for the baby, thanks to me. He hasnt bought one things for the baby. But he says when he gets his extra money from the financial aid, he will get stuff. I hate that he is relying on college money for our baby. Guess that gets him off the hook for getting a job??
Did any of you have a similar problem with the daddy? What did you do about it? And how was the issue resolved?