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23 yr old pregnant w/ 4th child after giving her 3rd up for adoption!

Posted by on Apr. 15, 2012 at 7:51 PM
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I work with a girl that had is now pregnant w/ #4. she put her 3rd up for adoption tho!
DD1 was born when she was 16 w/ baby daddy #1
DS1 was born when she was 18-19 w/ baby daddy #2
DD2 was when she was 21-22 w/ baby daddy #2 this one was put up for adoption because she said she couldn't afford three kids!
Now she is pregnant w/ #4 with baby
daddy #3!

What does everyone think About this? I think this is very irresponsible as a mother to do because she had put up the 3 rd baby. Oh and btw the adoption is open and she sees the baby often. I feel sorry for the little girl that was adopted because I would feel like why did I get put up?
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Posted by on Apr. 15, 2012 at 7:51 PM
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kt508
by on Apr. 16, 2012 at 8:01 PM
Thia breaks my heart. But who knows the third could behaving a better life with new family that are living comfortably!_
TwilekMommy
by on Apr. 16, 2012 at 8:06 PM

 Wait until her back is turned and throw condoms at her, when she turns around to see who threw them, be off doing something else.

valeriesmom1112
by Member on Apr. 16, 2012 at 8:16 PM
I don't think adoption is bad but why keep having more children after giving your third child up?


Quoting lvmy3lilones:

So abortion AND adoption is bad? Wth?

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newmommytobe.
by on Apr. 16, 2012 at 8:17 PM

I don't like to judge anyone on their life choices no matter how awful or awesome they may seem because I don't live their life. The only thing I can say is that I'm happy she got an open adoption because at least she gets to be involved in the kids life whenever she wants to be. Everyone is different.

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lvmy3lilones
by on Apr. 16, 2012 at 9:14 PM
Maybe at the time thats what she thought was best for her baby.....maybe she couldnt take care of it...but now she is more financially stable Idk

Quoting valeriesmom1112:

I don't think adoption is bad but why keep having more children after giving your third child up?




Quoting lvmy3lilones:

So abortion AND adoption is bad? Wth?

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Rachellee12
by on Apr. 16, 2012 at 10:20 PM

then God only knows.

Quoting valeriesmom1112:

Mabye but I don't think so cuz she just got a second job


Quoting Rachellee12:

Maybe daddy 4 makes more money?



krunchykorn
by on Apr. 16, 2012 at 10:22 PM

i think shes baby making machine

heather4511
by Ruby Member on Apr. 16, 2012 at 10:22 PM
I feel bad for the kids
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ParkersMom1992
by on Apr. 16, 2012 at 10:40 PM

Things like this baffle me.

ParkersMom1992
by on Apr. 16, 2012 at 10:42 PM

Serious question: If you were put up for adoption and it was an open adoption, and you saw your biological mother/father often... but you didn't want to. You just wanted your adopted family. Are you able to legally to make your bio parents go away?

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