Hi, I'm Jessica. I am 19 and pregnant, due in October. My baby's father (ex boyfriend) dosn't want to be part of the baby's life, mainly because he thinks I am lying about being pregnant. I have asked him to come to doctors appointments, but he always says he is too busy. He lives 2 hours from me, but I've offered to pay for his gas, plus he dosn't work.. and he still never comes. He has one other child, a little 2 year old boy that he is not allowed to see. For the longest time he told me he didn't know why he couldn't see him, so I looked up his other childs mother and politely asked and explained my situation. She was very helpful told me why, although i promised to keep it to myself, and she also told me that when she asked Chris (baby's father) about me, he said I was lying because I was desperate to get back with him.. Believe me he is deffinately not that special.
Also, I have lost many friends over my situation. 2 friends are sticking by my side, but most of the ones I thought really cared, didn't at all! My mom and dad are being very supportive. My mom is very exited because my sister Kyla (22) is also pregnant, which means 2 grandbabies! She's due in august with a little girl named Shelby. My dad however thinks he is too young to be a grandpa at 50 :P stubborn, but I love him very much! My sister does not really talk to me much about the baby because she is upset that we are pregnant at the same time. She feels I "stole her spotlight". It's not very fair to me because i didn't mean to get pregnant.. It was not planned. I really wish that this could be something we could bond over since we have never really gotten along very well. I try to talk to her about it but she always quickly changes the subject. I wish I didn't feel so alone. Any advice?