so...long story short..when I met the father of my baby/boyfriend...we were set up by a mutual friend. I had just gotten over a baaadddd relationship & wasnt even interested in dating but my best guy friend insisted I atleast talk to now father of my child. (hard to keep short, stay with me here I wanted to start from the beginning). we pretty much fell in a mutual, you are mine, right away..and have been through a heck of a lot since then (about a year and a half). He is a little shy of 3 years older than me and honestly the type of guy you would never let go if you had your hands on him. He has his flaws and we have our issues, but generally speaking, he's a keeper. We found out I was pregnant in January. (was already a month). Was not planned, but kind of poorly avoided on our plan. I was off birth control for less than a month & got pregnant then. I even was put back on it and took plan b (planned parenthood prescribed due to that is where I got my pills at the time) ALL WHILE PREGNANT. made me wonder about them but whatever I feel it was withing those couple days I got pregnant. Call us stupid whatever, but Im now 23 weeks pregnant with our babygirl and we are stressed because we don't live together yet.
I live with my enormous dysfunctional family and it alone stresses me out. I am 20 and moved back in here in october after being on my own for a year. We had different plans of moving in together and now things are on rush due to said babygirl...I am not working, I look everyday to find something to help with income, one interview, the guy actually told me to leave when he saw my belly..I'm having a great healthy pregnancy and capeable of working..with all said I am SUPER stressed/trying to take it easy dr.s orders.
TO MY POINT (if people are still reading....)
I want to help my boyfriend out in any/all ways I can right now, Ive always been independent and made my own money and paid my own bills and never relied on my guy for anything. I asked him how I could help and his response was along the lines of "what do you think you can be doing that you arent trying to"....so ladies..help me here...what am I not realizing about this situation...thanks :)!