So i recently joined not too long ago, and ive read a few posts where women look for comfort and they get a lot of rude comments.. I mean we come to this website looking to speak to people or looking for people to share with all of course with out judgement. And yet i see a lot of mom bashing. If someone posts something if you have nothing nice to say, no advice, no help what so ever or if youre just gonna make a rude remark why not keep it to yourself? For example I read a post about a woman who was venting over her bd not being around and having no help from anyone else and I read a comment where a woman sounded like she was gloating. I mean its great, WONDERFUL, spectacular that you have such a loving family nd hubby around and it is something to be VERY proud about but the woman who wrote the post doesnt instead of saying something like "i cant help u my hubby is amazing always has been and always will be so is my family, why not give your baby up if you cant handle being a mom" why not say something like "it'll be alright, you'll get through this". SUPPORT is what that woman was looking for, not someone to tell her how amazing her family is.
on May. 11, 2012 at 12:48 PM