Ignore it. I've been called a slut and worse. My husband is 16 years older than I am, I was 18 when we got married, I'm 20 now, and we have two children. I am white, he is Native American. The comments and looks are normal, you have to ignore them. Small minded idiots are just that, and they aren't worth your time. And our child together, and this baby were planned, he is the only partner I've ever had, and we were together the first time on our wedding night. So of course, I'm a horrible slut :)
OHHHH I have been called every single name in the book being a very young teen mom, even though the only partner I have had is all four of my kids father, who is my husband. People are stupid so I have learned to ignore them, they have no clue of our lives they have no right to judge or call names. (me and my husband are eachothers first and onlys) I wonder why we get called the names and not the men? lol
Proud Mommy To Three Little Munchkins, Richard Phillip, 4/20/07-5/26/07. Destiny Rose, 5/06/08. And Lilith Sakura, 8/10/10. Wife to Darren, 06-22-04. #4 EDD December 21st.
In order to avoid those looks, I just dress like a mom. Yesturday I wore a nice white sweater and a pair of black dress pants. I rarely get any looks and yesturday a nice old grandmother sat down next to me and started complaining about teens clothing. lol I told her I was 19 and she looked at me then my daughter and said "Well you're doing one heck of a job!"
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- IG1123
on May. 12, 2012 at 5:13 PM