I'm having a pretty small shower coming up this weekend. I really didn't want a cake just because I want little to nothing left over after the party ( I just went grocery shopping). That and my favors are cake pops, so I dont think anyone will miss cake, its a BBQ. I was telling a friend of mine and she said I have to have a cake, lol. Should I just get a small cake, make one, or just not have one at all? What would you do?