I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 6 years & after only 3 months we got pregnant & since we were young (16&18) & didn't know eachother very well it was a little rocky & has been alot ever since just for the fact that we never got the chance to get to know ourselves, let alone get to know eachother before we had a baby & now 6 years later, we are still learning & fighting along the way. well, i took his virginity, he was 18 & has never been with any other girls & has always been a little nervous that i would cheat (maybe he thought girls with more experience in sex & relationships get bored easy & cheat ?) idk, but either way, we were going thru a rough patch about 4 months after my daughter was born & my good friend from middle school started dating my neighbor & one day when i was working, he kicked her out & she had no where to go, so i said "oh well im on my way to work, but you can stay here & just get a shower, borrow some clothes & take a nap while im gone" so a couple months went by & i find out that ever since that day, my b/f & her had been texting back & forth & ide keep thinking they'd stopped & then i kept finding out they hadn't so after the 4th time finding out there STILL talking back & forth, my heart was just shattered, i was exhausted, paranoid constantly & finally just said F' this ! & we broke up for a while, in those maybe 6 months i started dating someone new for a few weeks. then my boyfriend & i got back together & i found out in that time my friend & him had sex a few times ! it crushed me b/c i never thought he'd do that, i meen i DID take his virginity & he is very calm shy guy not really into being a "player" or chasing girls, hes pretty into the family life & was extremely upset when we broke up & i had NEVER been betrayed like this, by my good friend & father of my child & to KEEP doing this to me, killed me more... anyway, LONG story short, she's back with my neighbor, has a baby of her own (by a different guy) & i'm trying my HARDEST to get over it, i mean it's been since 2009. but i havent seen her since then & now i have to see her EVERYDAY !... idk, what would you ladies feel/do ?