I looked everywhere on Google but I couldn't find anything like my situation.. my boyfriend is seventeen, and has a four month old daughter.. I was wondering if there's anyone on here that is in a similar situation? I have no idea what to do. He refers to his daughter as my step daughter and has asked me if I'm okay with Stepmom Status. We're engaged (I know, it seems young but we love each other and to each his own, right?) so I obviously plan on spending the rest of my life with him.. his daughter's mother is the epitome of psycho baby mama. I've tried being nice to her, she hates both of us. She is making up things about him hitting her and the baby. Now he has to have a social worker present to see the baby. He hasn't seen her in a month and a half. He wouldn't hurt either of them but I'm not getting into that. My issue is.. what on Earth do I do?? How do I be a stepmother at seventeen? I know I'm going to love this child like my own (haven't had the chance to meet her yet) and I don't want her mother making things up about me. I know that if the baby grows up around me, she'll see who I am, and that wont be a real issue but I don't want her to grow up with that kind of relationship, or lack thereof, between her mother, father, and stepmother.