Lonely..:(

[lindsay2793]

I am 19 years old, and pregnant. I am lucky that I have my bf by my side. We live together and I love him so much, but ever since I have been pregnant I have no friends.. I used to be the girl that was always hanging out with her friends now I am always alone. My bf is a gamer so he always wants to play his games and it makes me sad. I do not want to be needy but I hate being alone. I am so excited to be a mother and he says he is excited to be a father and I see it now. We are having a baby girl and her name is going to be Ava Elizabeth. I don't know what to do to not be so sad all the time. I cry all the time because all I want is to be loved and have people that want to spend time with me.. I just don't know what to do.

[Bertha21]

That is sad :[ I basically lost all of my friends too. Do you have a sister or any supportive family members?

[lindsay2793]

I do have a sister, but she is kinda to wrapped up in her bf to spend anytime with me. My family is excited they are just all so busy. And the bf tries but he doesn't understand how I feel.

[Si21]

Im sorry and i know how u feel ): my SO lives sorta far and I have no more friends even though I used to be a popular party girl .. I feel pregnant all by myself it really sucks !! Good luck I hope u feel better mama msg me/friend request whatever if u ever wanna/needa talk

[C.H.E.L.S.E.A]

 I know how it feels. I lost all my friends too and now my husband is gone for work 2-3 weeks at a time, so it's just me and my son most of the month. It definitely gets boring and lonely.

[BeachMama05]

congrats in your pregnancy! 

I know how you feel, it does get easier though and you will soon find out when the baby comes that you may not have time for friends for a little while! 

[.Angelica.]

welcome and congrats. try to keep yourself busy, it does get better.

[MayDay93]

 Yeah. That happens. Don't take it personally. Other girls your age just can't relate to you anymore plus they figure you can't really do anything now. But, that's just because they don't understand. Try making friends with other girls who have babies/are pregnant or just spending more time with family members. Tell your bf you need more one on one time and explain to him how your feeling. He will care if you tell him. Tell him you need some attention and want to spend time with him before the baby gets here. It's important that you guys have a strong relationship before the baby comes.

[pittymama]

try voicing to your boyfriend that you'd like to spend some date nights together before the new baby is here. don't make it sound like you NEED it, just tell him that's what you want and it would make you feel good. i'm married and still had to voice to my husband that i wanted some extra time with him before our daughter was born :)

[amonkeymom]

Have you tried calling up some of your old friends and tried getting together with them?  What about meetup groups for moms with young babies? 

[littleinsect]

I'm 19 as well an I lost all of my friends when I got pregnant. We just didn't have anything in common anymore. You're so lucky to have your boyfriend. Over the past few months my boyfriend (if I can even call him that anymore) has pretty much disappeared on us and I'm not too sure anymore if he is going to be in our sons life. After being together for 3+ years it's really tough to lose him after losing all of my friends as well. It's okay to cry! I cry all the time lol. Just stay focused on your little family. You'll make friends again- probably other moms or girls who are mature enough to respect that you are a mom and can't be so care free.