so i went out this weekend to a club. and met this guy. hes super respectful and has all the qualities i look for in a guy. my birthday is this friday and he gave me his number so that he could take me out thursday for dinner for my birthday. (hes a pilot so has to fly on friday). now my question is: should i wait for him to get in contact with me or should i do it first. i dont want to ruin it because i really like him.