So I live in a house with my SO, his mom and her boyfriend. We have an arrangement where SO pays for half the rent/bills and her boyfriend does the same. I buy the food for the house... What does she do?
She goes to school. She's 49 years old and goes to school an doesn't pay for anything.
Well what's got me fuming is he fact she invited her daughters, who are in their mid30s and their kids to come here from the 3rd - 5th... That's 9 extra people in the house. Me and my SO were never asked if it was okay or anything. We were told his sisters would be coming. Not asked, told.
My SO has work on the 3rd and 5th I have work on the 3rd and 4th. We don't want the kids in our stuff because as of right now it's a bit in the open.
Also I have never met these people and his younger of the two sisters already hates me because of shit his moms claimed about me.
I'm sorry I just needed to vent... It just pissed me off we weren't asked when we pay for food and half the bills around here. I told my SO I am NOT feeding them because I was told a week ago they were coming and that will really throw off our whole food budget for this month.
. I am pregnant so I keep some craving foods around. I have a feeling the kids will be eating them all. I have tried to set ground rules but everytime I trying to talk about this she would say but I haven't seen my kids/grand kids in this long. It pisses me of because one of her daughters is supposeably moving in sometime in July. But she said she couldn't bare to charge her rent.
This sister is well off. Also we just adopted a new kitten before we were told that they were coming. She's very scarf of new people and his mom said that if it bites or attacks one of the kids she will kill my cat. Spaz is only a few months old and it took awhile to get her warmed up to just the normal ppl in the house. Spaz is also helping with the depression I'm dealing with with this pregnancy.
on Jul. 2, 2012 at 1:56 PM