Is the court allowed to give my dd a paternity test just cause the father ask for it???
Anyway after I had found out I try to contact him every way possible, but he had blocked me from just about everything and was in Dominican republic for awhile (5months to be exact).
In those five months he was also dating a 15 year old, mind you he is 21 so of course that didn't last long after he had came back to dc, I would tell him about appointments and if he wanted to come but he always had something come up.
After I had given birth he came to the hospital and everyone even his own mother and father said that my dd was definately his , I guess he seemed to have think so too cause he got her name tatted and DOB.
But my dd is now 4 months today and he's only bought pampers for her twice, everytime I tell him he can take her spend time with her or see her something is always coming up. So when he is free and wants to see her I'm not and he gets mad at me( I can really give a rats ass) but he would tell people I would never let him see her that I was keeping her from him when it wasn't true.
The days he actually did come see her was only for five minutes then he was off again with his friends. After awhile I wouldn't hear from him for weeks, not even caring to ask how our dd is doing so I said ok well I'm not gonna be on your back constantly reminding you to either come see your daughter or that she needs something.
So I decided I didn't want anything to do with him, if he wanted to be in her life he would try not just tell people I don't let him see her. So anyway my phone has been off for two months now, so he has no way of contacting me.
Of course when it had cutt off I would call him and contact him so he knows we're to reach me atleast, of course he never did.
So let me just get right to it I came home yesterday and I received a letter saying I have to go to court so they can do a peternity test on my daughter. Like wtf and so I called him after whats been weeks since we've talked and asked him why he had took this to court, he tells me so we can have joint custody of her and to see of she's mine.??
The look on my face could have not been more dumb founded. So I go on to tell him your gonna make me miss school to take my daughter to court so they can stick something in her mouth, all he said was see you sept.7 and hung up.
So what I wanna know does the court have the right to do a paternity test on my daughter just because her idiot father wants it. And he's not even on the birth certificate please any answers to this ???