I hate being pregnant now & did with my son. I am not my usual happy self, I'm whinney, want to lay in bed alone all day (but I don't) & feel like shit 24/7. Talk to your doctor. you can take anti depressents while pregnant. I don't feel like I need meds yet, but I may. There's no shame in that.
My first pregnancy was horrible. I had nightmares, I was stealing dealing with being raped, and then being pregnant because of that, I had horrible morning sickness, I developed hyperemesis and pre-eclampsia, I was just miserable and nothing made it better or easier or made me happy to be pregnant. I had no friends, I was condemed by our new town and almost everyone in it, and I was homeschooled for that school year, so changing from being very active in school, with lots of friends, to be a pregnant teenager with no one but my brother and parents. My other pregnancies were much better, much easier, and much more enjoyable.

I was fine for the most part with both my pregnancies. Only thing I had a problem with with my first was pain. I was very uncomfortable. She was 9lbs so my stomach grew alot quickly. My second was okay. Didn't really have any problems at all. I just didn't like going to the doctor every 2weeks since I was high risk. But I think it all depends on the person. It's very normal. HAve you tried meditation?
Quoting sugarnspice89:My first pregnancy was horrible. I had nightmares, I was stealing dealing with being raped, and then being pregnant because of that, I had horrible morning sickness, I developed hyperemesis and pre-eclampsia, I was just miserable and nothing made it better or easier or made me happy to be pregnant. I had no friends, I was condemed by our new town and almost everyone in it, and I was homeschooled for that school year, so changing from being very active in school, with lots of friends, to be a pregnant teenager with no one but my brother and parents. My other pregnancies were much better, much easier, and much more enjoyable.
That sounds normal to me. Some women have a harder time during pregnancy and it makes it less enjoyable. Just try and remember that you are almost done. Even though you may be kinda miserable now, you will miss it once it's over! :)



- ms.roxxiepink
on Aug. 11, 2012 at 5:45 AM