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Posted by on Aug. 18, 2012 at 12:59 PM
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Hey everyone. So my 20th birthday is on Wednesday! I have a 1 year old daughter named Gracelyn. We are moving into out first apartment tomorrow so everything is kind of crazy lately.

Honestly I have no idea what to do on my birthday but I am off work & I get paid for it. Lol. Anyways, I haven't been close with any friends since I had my daughter so I'm not sure what to do. I also have never went out to a club or party or anything like that so Idk about all that...I also NEVER go out and do anything unless its a special occasion. I work all the time and when I'm not working I'm spending time wit my daughter.

Any ideas on what I should do?
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TS9509
by Member on Aug. 18, 2012 at 1:02 PM
Maybe go to a nail salon and get a mani/pedi or go get your hair done? My husband got me a spa gift card for my last birthday and I had a mani and massage!
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redbutterfly666
by Member on Aug. 18, 2012 at 1:04 PM

i have no idea im still trying to figure out what to do for my 20th birthday in september lol heres a bump :)

KylersMom8-16-7
by Gold Member on Aug. 18, 2012 at 7:58 PM
I was too busy with moving and my boys to have a party at 20. At 21 I got a surprise party and one legal drink then got pregnant. At 22 my MIL took me to PF Changs and Sherlock Holmes 2(my 3mo son, SO, SIL, & BIL came too.)

Do something for YOU!
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greenhazel96
by Member on Aug. 18, 2012 at 8:16 PM

You should take a day to yourself and go to the spa and get pampered! It sounds like you deserve it girl! And then mabye go to dinner with your husband and kids :)

dandeli0nwishes
by Member on Aug. 18, 2012 at 10:15 PM

Go to dinner/breakfast with family or a freind. Don't feel weird reaching out to a freind after a year, people do it to me all the time. For my 20th, I went to a nice dinner with dh & baby. my roomate (at the time) forgot it was my birthday but invited friends over that brought over two big bottles of tequila. I got too drunk & pased out at 9pm missing my surprise birthday at a freinds house lol. & then i missed another party that night at 11pm. I woke up at 1am & went to my aprtment complexes hot tub & swam in the pool all morning. For my 21st I plan to be breastfeeding. I just want to go bowling.

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