I'm 20 now, dh is almost 23, I don't expect any finacial help from family. I have proven myself as a good mom, I wish they could be excited. But, I know they won't be. My family thinks I should be the: go to a University far away, travel Europe, party, date around, then have a carrer; type person. Mine & dh's family wasn't even at are wedding, because they thought we were too young at 18 & 21. We were dateing for 4 years before we got married.
With my first pregnancy I told my family as soon as I found out. They said it was early & I could misscary. I did misscary at 12 weeks. They said it was a good thing because I wasn't ready for a baby. With ds I told my mom at 10 weeks & the rest of my family & dh'es family at 14 weeks.They acted like I was ruining my life. I'm having my 9 weekish ultrasound on Thursday.I was thinking about showing are family's then to just get it over with .But, they may be like, why are you even telling me so soon, you really don't know if you're having a baby, you're not even in the second trimester.
. Ugh vent over lol.