is this good or bad ?

[kyleighsmommy18]

okay i have a boyfriend that i love to death but when i want to hang out with him i have to take my daughter but im asking is it wrong to take my daughter around my boyfriend even though he isnt the father ?

[Mama_Gleich]

Do YOU feel it is wrong to take her around your bf?

And how long have you guys been together?

[kyleighsmommy18]

i dont feel bad about it i have to get comfortable with taking her with me and her father that i barely talk to somehow figures out im over there and i dont know how he knows

and 2 months almost 3

[MamaPeanut]

I don't think it's ever a good idea to even introduce a child to a new boyfriend until at least 6 months and you are sure they are a good person.

Bring people in and out of a chikdren's lives can cause serious emotional stress and later feelings of loss and abandonment.

[kyleighsmommy18]

Quoting MamaPeanut:

I don't think it's ever a good idea to even introduce a child to a new boyfriend until at least 6 months and you are sure they are a good person.

Bring people in and out of a chikdren's lives can cause serious emotional stress and later feelings of loss and abandonment.

well i been knowing him for a year before we even started to date and he except the fact i have a child . my boyfriend is 22 btw , and he wants to be apart of taking care of her.

[_AshlynNicole]

2 almost 3 months? And you bring your daughter? Yeah, that's not a good look.

[kyleighsmommy18]

Quoting _AshlynNicole:

2 almost 3 months? And you bring your daughter? Yeah, that's not a good look.

okay thats fair but how do i tell him its to early to actually want to be apart of her then ? he really wants to help out he buys her diapers and he wanted to buy her milk (similac advance) but i told him no and understand what you are saying

[_AshlynNicole]

I would tell him if he's comfortable with it, he can help buy her things, but your not comfortable with him being around her yet. He should understand

[delainey.oneill]

I dont see a big deal
I mean its nothing to bash her aboit just because they have onlh been together for 3 months....she said shes known him over a yr. Use your mother instincts....how old is the baby

[kyleighsmommy18]

Quoting _AshlynNicole:

I would tell him if he's comfortable with it, he can help buy her things, but your not comfortable with him being around her yet. He should understand

he is comfortable with it and really wants too , but it taking me some time to get use to i enjoy that he wants to

[kyleighsmommy18]

Quoting delainey.oneill:

I dont see a big deal
I mean its nothing to bash her aboit just because they have onlh been together for 3 months....she said shes known him over a yr. Use your mother instincts....how old is the baby

she is 3 months now almost 4