When did you decide to have another child like what age were you and what were your reasonings? I'm just so confused because see I've been around children my whole life. I've always loved children and always wanted to be a mother. There's nothing else in my life that I've ever wanted to do. But I always wanted to have multiple children and now I don't even feel like I want to have another at all. My first daughter is only three months old but still I don't even feel like I'd want to have another when she's older. I was always told you should have your kids close together in age so they'll get along better when they're older and I get that because my sister and I are a year and a half apart in age. Even so, I have a 1 year old in my house and I don't think I could handle having another child and her. Will my feelings on that change as she gets older? Did yours?