I would love to chat with moms who have children who fight and do not listen to anything you say. Im honestly at my wits end. I really need some help. I know there are those programs you can buy with the books and dvd's, but i dont know how well that would work. If you have any advice anyone can give me to help...even just a little.... I would be forever greatful to you. Maybe i should just call Nanny911..lol.